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TW- possible miscarriage

I should be 9w today but after after my appointment yesterday I'm not sure what to think. There was no heart beat, but there was fetal pole and sag. She said it looked like I was 6 weeks. My heart sank but my doctor wanted me to get my HGC levels tested. I got them back today and they were over 95,000. I'm going bac...

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Pregnant again or remaining HCG?

I had a miscarriage which was finished 3 weeks ago (confirmed via scan 3 weeks tomorrow that there was nothing left in my uterus) This morning I decided to take a test a got a faint line. Since there was nothing in my uterus 3 weeks ago and the loss was a very early one about 4/5 weeks would I still have HCG in my...

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TW!!

TW - - - - - - I think im having a miscarriage, im not sure and neither was the er. i started heavy bleeding at 5am and it stopped abruptly, i also passed a clot that was kinda big. The ER said the ultrasound came back fine and the baby had a heartbeat but im spotting now. Idk what to do

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Miscarriage

Has anyone had a miscarriage at home? I had a miscarriage yesterday and I just feel so hurt & depressed. I was estimated 11weeks. I will possibly get a d&c next Monday. Just looking for advice/ answers to my question. How long did cramping last/bleeding? How did you mentally go on? If you got a d&c was it painful?

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3weeks pregnant

Hey! Just found out 3 days ago I’m pregnant again after going through a miscarriage last month. My anxiety is so bad & I’m constantly worrying the same thing is going to happen. Is anyone else the same? 🩷

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When should we tell..

Hello! Ive had recurrent miscarriages. This is the first time that ive reached 6 weeks, and i just have anxiety everyday thinking that today will be the end of this pregnancy. I blame the miscarriages for being so scared :( but anyway, im scared of everything that could possibly go wrong and i dont have my ultrasoun...

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Scared !!!

TTC for 2.5yrs 2 miscarriages (1 in Oct 22 and 1 in Jan 24) 1st round of letrozole Suspected ovualtion on 2nd July CD1 13th june Yesterday ... BFP

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I'm terrified

To make my long story short took me 3 years and lots of doctor visits to get pregnant with my daughter had her decemeber of 2020 March of 2022 I had an ectopic loosing my right tube March of 2023 I had a miscarriage March of 2024 I had a miscarriage I've had 1 period since my surgery and just took a test this mo...

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How long to wait after DNC?

Hi, I just got my period after having a DNC about a month ago. I also just had my postop visit with my OB she told me that I should wait a month before trying again so that my uterine lining could rebuild to the healthy state. She mentioned there was an increase of miscarriage if I didn’t due to the chance my lining...

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Miscarriage?

About 2 weeks ago I got two positive pregnancy tests I made an appointment for this next Friday. I started bleeding today and it hasn’t stopped is it a for sure miscarriage or should I go get checked out today or do you think I’m good to wait till friday for my appointment I’m honestly freaking out. This would be my...

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Feeling defeated

Hi yall. First time poster. So me and my husband have had 2 miscarriages, we have been trying for a baby for 1.5 years with no luck, we have literally tried everything the doctors have recommended, my husband did a at home test so he's not the issue. Every time I get my period I get depressed and feel like giving u...

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How long did u get pregnant after miscarriage

Hey I had miscarriage in feb and we been trying but no clue can someone tell me how long it took them to get pregnant again and any tips or anything? I been very upset

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Feeling Discouraged

TTC #3 ended in a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks. This was just over a month ago and I am anxiously awaiting my period returning. It’s driving me crazy. Anyone else? So keen to know what my cycles are doing so we can try again but just feel like it’s never going to happen. So many friends are pregnant, my best fri...

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Just got home from D&C procedure

Hi everyone. Unfortunately I left the January 2025 babies group and have now joined this one. I lost my baby at 9w4d, finding out through my first ultrasound on Tuesday and just came home from the D&C today. I have an almost three year old and want to give him a sibling more than anything. We’re devastated. Anyone e...

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Recurring blighted ovum. Help!

I have conceived naturally which resulted in a blighted ovum at 7 weeks- no heartbeat detected. I then found out I have PCOS started medication and took letrozole and fell pregnant immediately which again now resulted in blighted ovum and no heartbeat. If you have been in the same situation or someone that has ple...

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Abortion pill mifepristone

They gave me this tablet an hour ago just wondering if anyone else has had the same done and if so what did you feel like and what happened? Will I miscarry or do I HAVE to take misoprostol the next day ? Because what happens if I don't turn up for the second tablet? Any one else ? Also am sorry if this offends...

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Prayer request

I’m 42 and 2 weeks ago I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. It was my first pregnancy. We want to try again. I’m starting to fret that we might have ran out of time. My husband is 40 soon. This pregnancy was the First time trying for us both because we came to the Lord late and life and married late in life too. It didn’...

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traumatic

Mostly need to vent and trigger warning !!!! Talk of hospital , surgery, blood clots , blood , trauma I had my dnc for missed miscarriage on Tuesday Yesterday I started having medium sized clots passing and pain on Thursday night but I pushed it off as nothing to concerning. Friday morning I woke up with a huge b...

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Hope needed

We have just been told at 11+4 that baby stopped growing at 9+4 and I am about to go through miscarriage (medical, not D&C). We're devastated. I guess I'm just looking for some hope, how long did it take you to conceive again after your miscarriage? So sorry we all have to experience this awful thing x

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I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks this so traumatizing for me

This is my second pregnancy and first loss pregnancy. I never thought it will happen to me . 😭😭😭😭

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