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I think my ttc journey is officially on involuntary hiatus

I’ve been trying for almost 4 years I had irregular periods so my doctor gave me letrozole and after upping my first dosage I got pregnant and then when I was 12 weeks found out I had a missed miscarriage. That killed me and I was extremely emotionally distraught for a yr but I was having regular periods so my doct...

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Third miscarriage in a row.

I just keep going between being completely gutted and numb. I had really hoped this would be our rainbow babe. It feels like my body keeps failing me, that I’m failing my husband. He’s so kind and supportive and it just hurts more because I know in my being he’d make an incredible father. We’re close to 30 and it fe...

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Miscarriage #4

Life has been hard. I have been trying to have a baby, and so far conceiving has been a piece of cake. I just cant stay pregnant. I have had 4 miscarriages now (going through one as i type this) and I am devastated. I am bleeding and wondering if i could still be pregnant. I have been on synthroid (thyroid medicatio...

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Threatened Miscarriage

This morning I woke up and noticed blood and it’s been intermittent throughout the day no clots just red blood. It’s not heavy but still enough. Went to the drs waiting for a referral for a scan. Has anyone else experienced similar? I’m so upset and expecting the worst 💔

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Why am I not getting pregnant???

Hey Ladies, I need some advice. I lost my Pregnancy at 21weeks due to loss of amniotic fluid somewhere between 12weeks and 20weeks (unaware due to lack of scans and unsure when it started) My Placenta was acting as a sponge and absorbing all the fluid so the baby had None. It's now been almost 3months and 3perio...

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Subchorionic Hematoma Bleed

Hi, I had a subchorionic hematoma bleed 12 days ago. It was pretty traumatic and very heavy. It stopped the next day. 12 days later, and I've started to bleed bright red again! Has anyone heard of a subchorionic hematoma reappearing? Or could this possibly be a miscarriage? Waiting on the EPU to call me tomorrow bu...

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I think I might be having a miscarriage

I'm 4 weeks pregnant and I was having brown discharge that started yesterday today the brown turned red and started getting lighter I'm not bleeding more than a couple dabs but it's no longer Brown at all anymore

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5 days late

I’m 5 days late and hubby and I had sex last night and I’ve got a very small amount of spotting today.. I had a miscarriage start of last month also 😢.. any ideas?

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Finally conceived but just miscarried 💔

I was on this group a lot as we were TTC our second and got pregnant after 6 months of trying. Unfortunately, I just suffered a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks (baby stopped growing at 8 weeks). I’m absolutely heartbroken and would love To know if anyone has had similar? I’m going to take some time to heal but Ofcou...

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Failed surgical management miscarriage

I had surgery for a missed miscarriage 3 weeks ago and today I took a pregnancy test and it came back with a strong positive! I called EPU and I had to go in for another scan. They said I’ve got retained tissue and I can’t wait for it to pass naturally over the next 2 weeks or I can have medication to speed it up. ...

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How soon did you try/become pregnant again after miscarriage?

I know it’s personal just looking to hear some people’s experiences

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Torn between decisions

This was my first pregnancy, which is now considered a miscarriage… My doctor went over my options. I’m really not wanting to wait it out naturally because it’s like waiting for the inevitable and i don’t think my mind could handle that wait. For the Medication… my biggest concerns is 1 being that there’s a chance ...

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Periods after miscarriage

I had a MMC at the end of March and I’ve had my first period since, right on time 29 days after the MMC, I’m usually pretty regular, 29 day cycle. But I’m now on day 33 and I feel no sign of my period starting yet, have taken a test on Monday when I was a day late but was negative. I also haven’t had any pregnant sy...

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Miscarriage or normal?

Haven’t been to a doctor but if counting by my last period I’m about 8 weeks pregnant. About two weeks ago I experienced light bleeding of sorts it was dark and looked like old blood, it lasted about two days. Everything I looked up made me feel like it was implantation bleeding. Fast forward to today, two weeks lat...

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Thalassemia

I was told by my hematologist that i havw thalassemia, after having my son i experienced a great loss of blood and blood clots for about 3 Months in the beginning of the month i would have a very bloody “period”. 1 month after birth and every month for 3 months. Since December of 2022 I’ve been on the depo shot. Doe...

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Fear..

I’ve had 3 miscarriages and now I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. I’m currently 9 weeks 2 days and I’ve had two positive reassurance scans that showed growth and a healthy heartbeat. Does the fear of something happening ever go away, I’m constantly analysing everything like when I wipe or a cramp, does this ever go...

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Migraine after miscarriage?

Is it normal to get migraines after a miscarriage? I keep getting then ever since I miscarried on Saturday.

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Anxious

How to not feel anxious when I have just found out that I'm pregnant after having 8 miscarriages I don't know how to stop feeling anxious 😳

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Baby No.2 ❤️

Is anyone else in a similar position or this happened to them… Basically I had 2 miscarriages then had my rainbow baby girl in December 2023 via C-section. I have just found out I’m pregnant (incognito because of being so early) my little girl is almost 6 months. Is this really bad for my body or the baby? Am ...

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Helping a friend going through a miscarriage?

My friend yesterday and today has gone through having a miscarriage I was there when she found out she was pregnant and yesterday seeing her in so much pain and today finding out for sure she had lost the baby there was no baby heartbeat how can I help a friend during these times I’m doing my best but I feel so hurt...

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