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What can be done when they "fire" you from 1 position

So when i got to work last night I got pulled into the office again 😒 they said it was due to poor performance what's a lie the new chick has poor performance and flirting with all the guys 😒 and got off at 6 one day and stayed just to flirt with them 😑 and if I or anyone did that we would of been told to get the…

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Dinner time

Ok serious question.. how the hell are we eating dinner without being interrupted by baby?😂😂 I swear he’s actually a 20 year old in a 12 week olds body because HOW does he know the second I sit down to eat dinner… I’ve been bathing him and feeding and putting him to bed before I can even cook dinner but that’s not…

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Justified or abusive

My BD bought my child a blanket and saw a photo of another baby with it. He asked if it was her blanket so I lied and said I didn’t think so, knowing he wouldn’t like that. He said he knew I was lying so I said sorry that I shouldn’t have played dumb and said I didn’t know. He threw the blanket in the bin, he later ...

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Would this bother you?

I live in a different city to my mum and she visits me and my son infrequently, maybe once every couple of months for a day or night. I have two older brothers who live closer to her. Today she came to visit us and she mentioned casually that she has booked a holiday with one of my brothers later in the year, and th...

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Tearing stuff up

My newly 3 year old has been ripping up any kind of paper or toy that is made out of cardboard. He has never done this before! Is this normal?

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Weaning on holiday

Hey, my LB is 6.5 mths old and we are currently doing breakfast and lunch purees, still having 4 - 5 bottles a day also. We are going on holiday in 3 weeks and I am struggling to see how I am going to keep up with his food routine when i won't be able to take pre prepared food with us.. I don't usually give my LO po...

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Resentment towards husband

Did anyone else feel any resentment towards their husband after having a baby? My little girl is currently 6 days old and my husband thought it was acceptable to go to the pub with his friend for a couple of hours. I was absolutely exhausted and I feel embarrassed to say this but i fell asleep with her in my arms. H...

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Any advice?

I’m a stay at home mom. I have an almost 3 yr old who’s autistic. He needs to be taken to the school and therapy. He’s nonverbal so I stick by his side as of now. Recently my son’s dad did his taxes and just got a large amount of money back. He doesn’t plan to give me any money either. I basically live off my sons ...

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Which nursery would you choose?

We just moved to the area, and have asked all nurseries within a 15 min radius and only 2 have space. I just want my 2 year old around other kids to support his speech development and maybe some time to myself. We’re already on a waiting list at our top choice for September. I haven’t yet sent him to nursery, but I’...

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My marriage is over

I'm gutted for my children. They'll lose everything they know. I'll be homeless, have been a sahm so have no income. I'm scared of the worst outcome and destroying my childrens world. Should I just paper the cracks and stay for their sake?

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A little bit of help please?

(Uk) my child is turning 4 this week he will be starting reception in his new school this September he will be leaving his current nursery soon I will be working this year too my question is how am I going to balance work and childcare his new school is ofcourse just open term time only his nursery will be open in h...

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Dentist??

NHS sdvice is to bring baby to a dentist as soon as they have the first milk tooth but it's impossible to find a practice that accepts new NHS patients! Is private the only way to go? Is there any way to track when practices open their waiting lists?

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Husband watching through monitor

This might sound a little mad but here we go 😂 We recently installed a monitor above our LOs next to me in our bedroom. It’s linked to our phones and is always on. My husband works away for half the week and he has started to check the monitor when he’s away as he says he likes to be able to see our baby in real…

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Nursery fed my child baked beans against my wish

Hi everyone. When I was signing my son up with a new nursery I asked them specifically not to feed him baked beans but today I found out he was given baked beans. The head carer herself told me oh he ate all his baked beans. I was fuming as I do not feed him any food with added sugar and I know baked beans contain s...

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Picnic

Hi, what would you bring your baby for lunch if having a picnic? Need some easy picky lunch ideas 😃

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Potty training

Any tips on this topic would be much aprishiated, for reference I have an 18month old boy xxx

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3 month old is hard to feed

My 3 month has all of a sudden got hard to feed. She squirms, kicks and gets so distracted. Sometimes even acts like she doesn’t want it. Should I space feedings out more? Is she just too distracted? Do they plateau with how much they want to eat? She used to chug bottles lol so it’s not a feeding issue as far as la...

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Anyone else's child still note potty trained?

My sons about to be three and he's jot yet potty trained. I feel so shit about it and I've been so sick as I'm pregnant to the point where I'm like on and off with it. I'm gonna try my hardest to try again this week. He's soso smart and has indicated when he's done and poo and pee which is very good. Need to move m...

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Fit to Fly Letter?

Hey gals, Has anyone flew past 28 weeks pregnant and needed a fit to fly letter (Ryan air)? I’ll be 31 weeks when we go on holiday - I booked it ages ago and didn’t release I needed one- so now I only have less than 2 weeks to get this sorted. I’m happy to pay for it if needed I just NEED to find a way to go on ...

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Wake window

What activities do you do with your 7-8 weeks old in their wake window? Also where? Floor? Bouncer etc?

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