Need opinions….

As someone that struggles with anxiety and stress an awful lot… i sometimes wonder if im being rational or whether i need to genuinely be weary of a situation. Can i ask opinions of this interaction with my partner of 6 months (he asked me to marry him after one month and try for a child the following month- of course thats on hold though). Id appreciate others views as my mind is a little crowded with the stress of it all and im questioning my own thoughts. I cant add more than one so will try to add in comments
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This doesn’t sit right with me, i feel like it’s quite toxic and obsessive behaviour..

Violence is NEVER ok & it will only get worse.

I care for that dog and she sleeps with me when hes not there and doesnt leave my side. But it’s consuming my every breath which is not how we agreed it would be. Its a joint responsibility and now he tells me he must work every day. I am left with the puppy until old enough for dog sitters. And i have teo children of my own too.

Sounds like a narcissist alert to me

I would leave now and like the above have said the violence will get worse. He hasn't even acknowledged he has done anything wrong and seems like he is twisting it to make you feel bad

I feel like giving you a hug 🤗

Leave. Now.

He’s not taking accountability. He’s completely dismissing you and making everything about him. Sounds very self centred and seems like he only cares about himself here.

Please run and don’t look back! He’s a toxic narcissist that is trying to manipulate you. Get out. If it’s this bad this early. Give it three more months and you’ll be in a living hell. You need to leave. Please leave.

I think he's just interested in you giving him a ride😂. Everything else just seems to be flying over his head.

“Dont push me away, you need to communicate “ 🤯 you are he's ignoring everything you're saying and trying to manipulate you,, cut him of asap no more conversations to suck you back in he's nuts😡

Aw this sounds awful 😖 I hope you are OK. I feel anxious just reading it x

Sounds like he just cares about him getting what he wants out of you. Don’t give in. Get that peace you need.

I read the first few txt screenshots and that was it. Girl he doesn’t touch at all on the things you’re upset about. He ignored you, and starts talking about himself, how he’s suffering. Gtfo with that kind of guy. He sounds awful.

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This reads as domestic and financial abuse. He is trying to justify abuse by blaming his mental health. Nothing justifies abuse. He is a grown man that has to take care of himself. Go and stay strong.

Don’t trust him at all. I think he sounds quite controlling and abusive.

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