Porn fantasies can just be fantasies but obviously everyone’s relationship has different boundaries around porn and it doesn’t seem he’s been truthful with you about it. Was he texting someone before you were together or during? As that I feel is the main issue or it would be for me
I’m shocked… uhhh I guess question his sexuality like what is even going on is he LGBTQ? And secondly every relationship is different so whatever your goes on porn that’s your boundary for me it’s cheating because your imagining fucking the person your watching point blank period. I like my men to have eyes for ME.
Not to mention, I’m Christian and he supposed to be a Jehovah witness