Recently had baby

Not so much with my newborn, but my toddler everyone keeps insisting on helping and they keep screwing up his schedule and it’s making him so upset

@Martina yea my sister tried to help the other night and it was a disaster I feel like my nights alone was never that bad 😫😫 and now she wants to help again but Idk how to say no thank you because I can’t sleep anyways while he’s awake I still have to watch him even tho she’s here

My newborn no but my 15 month old yes my mother in law and my mom would switch off days while my boyfriend worked since I had a c section and it just messed her up completely she wasn’t napping but first night just the 3 of us she napped for 2 hours like please don’t come over anymore

@Kea yeah idk what it was but when my sister was helping he wouldn’t stay asleep and I lost more sleep than I normally would without help. Now I’m just like u can bring me food and stuff or help with washing bottles but that’s about it 😭

I have a 3wk-old. Family doesn't mess up the routine BECAUSE I CANT ESTABLISH ONE WHEN THEY KEEP COMING OVER TO HOLD HER FOR HOURS 😂 hopefully it will settle down 😂 I'm not mad, I know they are just as obsessed with her as me. But I would like to have a whole week with just my little nuclear family 🤗

@Jenny 📚✨ LOL I had to stop that because then they go home my baby wants to be held all day and I can’t do anything without the baby whining to be picked up 😂😂😂😆😆🤦🏽‍♀️

@Unruly ✨ yes! I'm not worried about it right now, bc as an infant I want her to feel as secure as possible but YESSSS, when she gets a few weeks older (as round 3 months) I'm gonna have a stern talking to with the family 😂😂 I cannot let her get clingy and expecting to be held 24-7