Weird to you? Sexual words around child

I had my bf and child’s father on speaker with our son present. I was telling him how I had a talk with son about body parts for men vs women and how mommy has a vagina, long story short. I think it’s important for children to know correct names. He goes, “I miss it”. He was fully aware that he was on speaker and tried to say it quietly, but the idea of him saying that was weird and I mentioned something for him to know how strange it was but didn’t want to argue at the moment. In the back of my head, I knew his mind would go there so I should have not mentioned it. Our son was not right beside me but close enough to hear words so I don’t know what he heard. Disgusted. Our intimacy is lacking a lot but there’s a time and place. My Bf often says things at bad timing (non sexual for the most part). Asked if I still had love for him with child sitting next to us etc. Stuff like that.. We had a conversation and month later he asked that same question. I have been cold on the topic of love due to other things he has done so he often doesn’t get words of love in return.

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Hmm I think he asked if you love him in front of your child on purpose. He’s baiting for the reply he wants cause if things don’t work out then your child would think it’s your fault. Manipulative tactic

@Marlenny I agree. Very manipulative. He Told me, I love you with my name while on he was on speaker phone today. He was also helping his mom at the time and Said it out of the blue. I tried to keep it light as our son asks, who is that? (Referring to my name) which makes that part funny because our son definitely knows my name. I did chuckle but didn’t say anything else. Our son had stopped saying, “I love you too” back to him recently until this week (assuming because that is typically me with no response.) While on the call same call today during the FaceTime portion, he showed a picture of us on the screen that we took years ago. I called because our son asked and he knew. Yet, he shifts the convo to me when I feel like he should be interacting with our son. I haven’t been the best at communicating because I am exhausted and tired of the same convo so I now dissociate and don’t respond to lovey dovey emotional things that he says. just worried at how it will affect our son.

It seems like you’re over it. Gotta draw the line in the sand, with what you do not just what you say

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