No friends

Realizing you actually have no friends is so sad. My “best friend” moved away a year ago, she came home yesterday and never even mentioned it. Seen her snaps this morning and she was out at bars with a girl who’s currently trying to take her bf and a girl she used to be friends with before that girl started dating my “friends” abusive ex who almost killed her. I don’t get why having kids makes others stop being your friend or inviting you places. I could never do that, even before I had a kid I could never just leave someone out of plans or just stop being their friend. My only friends are my bf and our son.
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Be patient. She only got back yesterday. Maybe she's going to message you in the next few days.

Have you tried reaching out to her? Like 'saw you're in town, how long are u here for?' When I go back home, sometimes I forget to tell some old friends and then we end up connecting when they reach out.....

I feel This. All my best friends have moved away and unfortunately it’s not just a 1-2 hour drive away. We still talk every day but I feel like I’ve lost a piece of my heart

This is real, people feel distant from you because they can’t imagine your experience and don’t want to try. It sucks but it’s very common to lose friends after having kids

I have 1 good friend and we don’t talk much. But we always try to get together. She has 5 kids I have 2. We live an hour apart. A friend from church I rarely talk to said it’s not quantity of friends it’s quality. I never go out with other ppl unless they have kids and our kids get along. I feel so alone. That’s why I’m on this site to hopefully find some friends to hang out with that have kids in my area. I don’t have a lot of time except in the summer.

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