Curious

Yes he is always telling me that I hold the baby too much

Not in those words. But whenever I ask him to hold her he's like 'uk u can put her in the bassinet or her swing'

@Keely, what do you say?

No it's my own mother.. "she's spoilt" I'm sick of hearing it..

I say he is little and if he wants cuddles he will get cuddles, my husband never really interacts with him anyway so I am practically like a single mother anyway. I also tell him I am always at home so I will bring him up however I choose

I say what the health nurse and hospital recommends, you cannot spoil a baby under 1 years old. As long ad your baby enjoys time 'off you' then being held and having their needs met is paramount 💖

All the time by my partners sister. She's all for the belief that newborns can be spoilt and they should learn not to be held early (i am totally against this and it honestly pisses me off to no end, which is why I don't allow her to babysit) I give my baby exactly what she needs. If she needs to be held all day, then that's what she gets.