Sex Question

Do you guys like when your partner sucks on your nipples? I’ve never really liked it pre-pregnancy mostly because my nipples are too sensitive and the sensations move beyond pleasure to just intense sensations. My partner likes to do this for foreplay and when I told him to stop, he said “I really need to find another woman for sex”, and honestly I feel like I should just let him do that because first of all, he’s being really rough with me through sex during this pregnancy, my drive is super low, and I do not want him sucking on my nipples. The other thing is that I have one kid already and sucking on nipples reminds me of that sensation of babies sucking and it feels weird so I freak out. Trying to see if there are other women like me.

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Hi honey next time you fella says I really need to fund another woman for sex. Look at him and say same one that actually cares about what I want during sex he will soon shut up. It's your body not his and if your not comfortable in doing something that he knows you don't like then he needs to respect your wishes xxx

He said that?!!? 😳 I’d shut that down so fast! my kid is two and I just now feel like I might let my husband touch them 🤣 I haaaaaated it postpartum, they were always hurting so bad and he’s still afraid to go there I think!

Firstly I’m so sorry he’s like this! That is appalling behaviour on his part. You’re carrying a life and you do not need that adding to your stress! Your nipples will be extra sensitive during pregnancy anyway because of all the hormones and what’s going on in there. He needs to respect you more. If he’s saying he’ll find another woman for sex that’s a vile red flag, I’m sorry. Tell him he’s got hands he can utilise! It’s your body. Your choices. Your feelings! You need to tell him that kind of talk is awful, and explain to him how you feel. You’re super vulnerable during this time and if he can’t respect that frankly he needs a kick up the arse x

I like it when it's been sucked by someone I truly love.

My husband said same to me twice and i told him to go ahead. He was shocked. You don't threaten me with another woman. For him to say it , I believe he's already doing it , he's only looking for excuse Incase he get caught

I was never a fan of it personally. I breastfed for 16 months and I still don’t like when my husband tries to stimulate my nipples.

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