Emotionally drained

You mean the balance of daily responsibilities?

@J yes lol

@Jazmine yesss. Like tonight is perfect example. I’ve been putting baby (12m) to bed for the last hour or so…the kitchen (dishes, counter, floor) needs to be cleaned up and the living room with all the toys. I guarantee that when I go out there my husband has been sitting on the couch scrolling TikTok. And he wonders why I’m tired, like I have to go spend the next hour or so cleaning/washing dishes in stead of chilling on the couch with him.

@Jazmine husband is snoring on couch and I just finished the toy pickup and organize counters and dishes took two hours. Didn’t get to the floor…. Really trying to figure out how he helped today. 😭

I'd have a conversation. Hey, if you're going to leave me to clean the whole house after bedtime, then you can do the bedtime routine tonight. Or, you can clean up. Your choice.

I have a feeling that my sons dad has been showing coercion behavior 😭 first it was the threat with cps how the said they wanted me to confess to cps that I grossly over exaggerated the SA that my son said happened to him and that them wanting extra time with no interruption aswell as the “confession “ was a take it or leave it and if I didn’t comply there would make an affidavit stating that I refused to give them my address even tho they had my address and stated that I lied about living their even tho I literally lived their for months. I also signed an affidavit and had it notarized and it was sent to them. They also stated that they will file an affidavit stating that I made false allegations in which I didn’t… and that they want full custody of my son and don’t want me to have contact with my son at all…. And then another is we went to mediation and I told them I don’t agree with a lot of the things but to avoid them trying to put me in jail as I have kids to think about

I was pressured to sign so a lot is aggravating me 😕

@Jazmine that is overwhelming to think about. I would never redact anything my child has told me ur sons father is out if his mind. Do what ever you can to keep your baby safe an close to you he sounds scary 😭

@J I hate that I'm always looking for what he did. If anything at all some days it's literally all me cooking cleaning and washing. My baby is still so small so I can get some tasks done or started but it's so frustrating sometimes wearing the baby walking around to soothe him and cooking and my man just laughing an sending me instagram reels like BRUH READ THE ROOM 😂

@Renny he is tbh and the situation dosnt make sense either

@Jazmine Im so sorry you have to go through that don't lighten up stand firm

To top it off baby boy was diagnosed with something that isn’t diagnosed in children under six but he has it 😭 and reading up on it it’s from trauma and abuse