3 year olds behaviour

Anyone else really struggling with the behaviour of their little ones? My LO will behave brilliantly at nursery but then as soon as we get home they are really challenging me. They have stopped listening to absolutely everything and just being really ‘naughty’. Does anyone have any tips? Reward charts and getting out and about has stopped working. They will scream as loud as they can none stop and nothing seems to stop them. I’ve ignored them I’ve tried talking calmly I’ve even taken toys away. We try do so many activities together and lots of fun stuff but them having my attention doesn’t even seem to help. The bad days are become very regular and I’m really not sure what to do anymore! Please say I’m not the only one in this position.