serious question

Then no he can’t be a hypocrite

Then have the same respect 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m a firm believer im cool with what you cool with lol so be careful what you are cool with 🙃

One band one mf sound 😅🤣 if you don’t want me doing it please don’t even…

@Nika One band, one sound has me cracking up lol, but I totally agree. I'm big on matching energy 🤷🏽‍♀️

You should both be able to have co parents enter the household where the children live. This seems a bit silly

@Rebecca why do they need to enter the house? They don’t live there😂 that’s someone else’s private home. I wouldn’t have my step daughters mum in my private space . That’s weird to me

@Angel They don’t need to every time, but what if it’s raining? What if the parent needs to use the bathroom when they pick up the kid? What if they need to discuss something about the co parenting arrangement? What if the parent wants to assess the living situation of their child? Having the home be off limits to the childs parent seems weird to me.

@Rebecca if it’s raining get an umbrella😂 go to the toilet before you do drop offs (we always pick up and drop off so this is not like our situation but still) . Discuss parenting over the phone preferably through texts so everything is recorded and no back tracking . The child has a good living situation if you don’t believe so go through the correct authorities , you’re not having a look around my private home. This is not only weird to me but also my step daughters mum would also find it weird my husband wanting access to her home. We have boundaries .

Absolutely healthy to set boundaries, I’m glad it’s working well for your family 😊

thank you guys for all the great advice !