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I’m estranged from my family and moved clear to the other end of the state for stuff just like this. I was in the worst bipolar crisis of my life and at my wits end. It’s been a long road but with therapy, change of scenery, and cutting out their judgmental smothering chatter, my life feels like my own finally! Feel like you’re in the same place. I tried many things to make it work but I’m better this way. F their opinion. You get one life!
I’m sorry you are going thru that. But it’s about you, your wellbeing and your kids. So if you want to move to better yourself then move. If you want to hire a nanny then do so, however I think you need an extra room so they can stay with you (I’m not 100% sure tho). But if that’s what you want to do then do it. Ppl will have something to say regardless. So just do what’s best for you and don’t worry what others have to say.
I'm so sorry to hear you are going thru this. You should do what feels right to you and your lo. Sometimes, we need to forget what others have to say, especially if they aren't helping you out. You should definitely try and seek some therapy. Just because you are a mom doesn't mean you need to get over it. Your mental and emotional health matters too. So if you feel you need to hire a nanny to help you then do it. Who cares what others say and judge. If you have no one else looking out for you. You need to look out for yourself.