Divorce

My husband said he wants a divorce and I’m two weeks postpartum. I don’t know what to do. He has been very mean the last few days so a part of me wants to end it but I also don’t want to give up on our family.
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this during recovery. But it’s also selfish of someone to want to leave during such a sensitive time. I’d consider counseling honestly and navigate that. My husband and I went through something similar during my pregnancy. Ultimately being separate really didn’t work for us. We worked through it / still working through it especially for our kids too. We’re better together than apart at the moment.

@Chantal🇯🇲🇭🇹 Thank you. It’s been very hard especially having to still take care of our toddler and newborn after having an argument where I’m told things. I am glad you and your husband worked it out and I genuinely want that for us.

He’s a jerk honestly I’d be non chalant about it and give it to him when someone stays in an unhealthy and unhappy relationship everyone suffers including the child. Never let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. If he cared about you he would try to understand what you’re going through and fix it so f him and do what’s best for you and your new bundle of joy

Trust me I overstand me and my bf went thru something similar and I felt the same way I cried dam near every second

After delivery especially the first child, generally man doesn’t understand what comes with it. Me and my husband had lot of arguments fights with our first one. But after few months our first one made us a family, he made both of us more mature. I would say just give more time, with time he will become more attach to you and the baby. But if it is very toxic and he doesn’t improve than n point staying. But try to give sometime if you can. Initial few weeks sometime months are really tough

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