Is it just me?
Hi moms, so my husband and I are separated due to marital issues, but living in the same house. Our relationship is going okay, but we made this agreement that I will sleep with my 3.5months baby 4 times per week (during the week) in the same bedroom as i’m on maternity leave, and he will sleep with the baby in the same bedroom over the weekends (three nights per week). I am exclusively breastfeeding with no bottles at night. He is currently working from 9-5 in the office. Am I being too good with letting him get basically great night sleeps for 4 times per week ?! Plus when I ask him to sleep with baby in the same room during the week he will refuse !!
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I think thats amazing arrangement! I am on maternity leave, my partner works full time ( very demanding job and provides financially for me and household) and I do and done every single night since baby was born. In my opinion your arrangement is very fair
I think it sounds pretty fair
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If you’re on mat leave and he’s working full time then personally I feel like it’s fair that you have more nights in with the baby 🤷♀️ especially if you’re breastfeeding, surely if baby wakes wanting milk they will be better off with you anyway?