Stopping breastfeeding

Hey mums, I’m super anxious about stopping breast feeding because I honestly don’t feel like I can cope with the fight of it (with my baby and my husband). My LO is boob mad and is only settled by me at night. She still wakes regularly throughout the night and I am done with that too. I need a night to myself. I am so done with breastfeeding now as she’s nearly 16 months old and need a bit of me back. Does that sound selfish? I managed after a very hard fought battle to get her to sleep the night for a very short period of time but she got ill and everything collapsed very quickly again. And the thought of doing this again is giving me anxiety. I’m back at work now and cannot imagine more sleepless nights and arguments with my husband whilst trying to maintain my profession. I’m at my wits end. I guess I’m stuck in a rut of needing to stop but too anxious to do it. Any advice?
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I totally feel you on this. My daughter is no where near sleeping through the night so the thought of weaning is very stressful. I’ve been trying to gradually reduce the number of overnight feedings. So if she wakes 3 times overnight I might only feed her 2/3 times currently. The one wake that she isn’t nursing, my husband does. She’s upset and Deff protests for milk but once she realizes it’s not mom settling her, she falls back asleep relatively quickly

@Sara how old is your LO? It’s so tough isn’t it xx

She’s 10 months- trying to make it to a year EBF but it’s been a struggle

16 months old is definitely old enough to night wean. A 16 month old doesn’t need feeds overnight. I think this is one of those times where you’ll just have to be quite firm. I’m working with a sleep consultant and she advised night weaning at 14 months and said it can really help their sleep. You can either do it gradually or go cold turkey. Your husband could always try doing the nights, this is what my friend did when she night weaned and they found their baby settled for dad really well.

I did manage to night wean her for a month or so. She was down to two feeds a day. Just before bed and once she got up, but she got ill and it all collapsed (I gave in to make my life easier with work nights). Struggling to face the fight again now I’m Back in work. It’s so tough

I can totally relate. It’s so hard!

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