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I’m so sorry :( this is horrible. At the end of the day he had a choice regardless of religion. He should have chose you. I really struggle to believe in religion when such hateful acts come from those who practice them. I have no idea how to help just wanted to send my love to you and I hope everything gets better and easier for you 🤍🫶🏽
I wish I had a magic wand or piece of advice to make it all better for you right away. This is horrible, and it shouldn’t have happened to you. Try your best to lean on your support system, focus on the wellbeing of you and baby. Taking care of your health and filling your own cup of self-love. Trust that in time he will regret allowing someone else to decide his future for him. Especially for a reason so superficial. And when it happens, he better hope you decide to take him back (if that is what you desire)🩷🩷🩷.
I’m so sorry girl, this is just rough but I 10000% agree with the girls. I don’t blame the mom one bit because she is entitled to her feelings and beliefs. I blame this 29yr old who didn’t have the courage to stand up for you and by you, especially that you’ve been together for 7yrs and he leaves you that easily?! No girl, there is no excuse whatsoever. He doesn’t deserve you. I can’t imagine how much this hurts you but you are a strong woman, got blessed with a beautiful baby, you got this. One day you will look back at this rubbish and realize that her behavior (awful and disrespectful) was a test for his love, commitment and loyalty for you. You and your baby deserve a man who will truly love you, protect you and stay by you no matter what. Feel free to message me if you need to chat. I pray you girl, no one deserves to go through this ever. PP phase is already rough as it is.
If he can’t stand up to his mother or make marriage/relationship decisions on his own that’s an issue
i agree he’s a damn loser. even his own siblings are like why tf would he choose his mother over his wife & daughter & they’re HER kids too??! it’s actually sad but it is what it is.
How did his mother force him to leave his wife & unborn child? Just genuinely curious
@Chí cos i got pregnant before marriage so she needed to “hide his sins” and tell everyone we broke up for another reason and pretend we don’t exist and we just ended for some other reason. she wants to hide my child from everyone
and pretend he doesn’t have a child with me
I am sorry you've been through this. I would not blame the mother but him tbf. My husband and I have different religion so his mum was against him being with me and pushing him to not see me anymore, he packed his stuff and left his family, lived against their expectations. We're now married with our first baby. He surely had the choice to prioritise you and his baby!