christmas

so, as sad as it is to say me and my bd are raising our daughter in two separate households. it’s almost christmas and it’s her first one and that means a lot to me to be able to have her for her first of anything. today her dad asked if he could get her for that day because he wants her to be with her brothers as well. i need some advice on how i can handle this or what to do because it’s new to me as she is my first and i don’t know what to do. she is with him this weekend and i usually get her back on Sundays but idk if i could go 4 more days without her.