Miscarriage
October 22nd is when my ob told me there was no heartbeat. I was supposed to be 10 weeks but it had stopped growing at 8 weeks. I didn’t really have any symptoms, no bleeding or cramping. November 12th is when I took the medication that I had to put up my cooch. Fast forward a few weeks, I had my ob appointment and they did an ultrasound and there was still quite a few tissue left. On Wednesday I had an D&C to get the leftover tissue. My ob prescribed me ibuprofen and oxycodone but I’m not in my pain so I haven’t took it and I’m also not bleeding anymore, just very little spotting. How soon could me and my husband could start trying again?
Is it bad the miscarriage didn’t really affect me like in the beginning I was sad obviously but now I’m okay with it cause I know it happens weather we like it or not, it’s life
Everyone grieves differently. It doesn’t make u a bad person for not being heartbroken over the baby. Esp when it was only a lil over 2 months. Some ppl grieve fast some grieve for years. Take care of urself. And take the time you think u need. Make sure u aren’t harboring any unresolved feelings first tho. Like if u can afford a therapist or something as them what they think so that u don’t accidentally have unresolved feelings when trying again