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White discharge at 37 weeks

What does white discharge means at 37 weeks? I feel continous wet what should be done?

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Labour?

For the last week or so I’ve had on an off period type pain with back ache. Last night it was so bad I could barely sleep and it went on from about 9pm - 6am waking me up a few times. The pain comes in waves and it feels like I’m having localised spasms in my belly but definitely not a whole belly “tightening” for 3...

Incognito
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Menstrual cup help!

Okay this is my first cycle where I started using a menstrual cup and I'm just wondering if the learning curve is really this steep?! I know I'm having trouble placing it because Im experiencing leaking sometimes, and I can definitely feel it which I know I'm not supposed to. Overall, it's made an annoying time m...

K
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When did you get your planned c section date?

My last babies were emergency sections this one will be planned? Im 22 weeks now? Do you think I could get it early?

Incognito
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Opinions Please!

My boyfriends dad is in hospital after having a small op. He should be home in a couple days but my bf and his mum mentioned taking the baby (our 2 month old) to the hospital to see him. I just don’t think it’s needed for my LO to go and be exposed to hospital germs unnecessarily when he all going well will be home ...

Incognito
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Mucus plug 34 weeks

Has anyone lost some of their mucus plug at 34 weeks or before? I believe I lost some this morning ( only a little bit ) I’ve been very wet down there lately but he’s been head down and low for a very long time so I’m assuming it’s just the extra pressure. I feel absolutely fine and baby boy is dancing around so ...

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C section incision

Anyone else numb just above the incision?! Mine feels soooooo WEIRD hahah!! It’s the most wild feeling

Incognito
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C Section mamas - when did you get back to fitness / exercise?

I’m due a c section next month, second child. I’ve put on a mass amount of weight because of pelvic girdle pain and unable to exercise. When did you get back to the gym/ light exercise etc post c section?

Incognito
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Hospital births…

What are people’s thoughts on hospitals in Kent?

Incognito
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Longer night stretch / engorgement

Hello! Little girl is 7 weeks and started to go longer through the night but it means I wake up around 3/4 leaking everywhere and in pain with rock hard boobs! Should I be expressing this away? Or just leaving it? Its so uncomfortable 😫

J
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Nerve damage.

Was wondering if anyone’s ever had nerve damage or problems after having c section. I currently keep waking up with a dead foot anyone eles ever had this😩

A
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Can you have your tubes tied while your already having your planned c-section?

So I'm uk based This will be my second child. I love my children but I think two is enough for me, especially since I'll be lucky to have one of each. So my question is; Can you have your tubes tied while having your planned c-section or do you have to wait or go private? I have no idea what the right procedures are...

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Hi ladies, I’m scheduled in for a c section but I have a strong feeling baby will be early, any spontaneous vbac stories that were actually planned for another c

unsure what to do if that happens to me🤷🏻‍♀️whether to try for a vaginal birth or just go as planned (advised to have another section)

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How soon did you get pregnant

How soon did you get pregnant after your first c-section? I’m thinking of trying after 15 months.

Incognito
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C section or vbac?

With my first I had an emergency section and with my second I’m conflicted on having an elective c section or shall I attempt a vbac? I’m leaning towards another section but my pouch already bothers me it’ll only get worse

Incognito
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C-Section information needed please.

I’m currently 36 weeks and my consultant has put a plan in place that I can be induced from 37 weeks if needed. I have health conditions and this pregnancy is taking its toll on my body. I’m concerned about being induced this time round (I’ve been induced twice before) for some reason I’m over anxious this time an...

K
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Silly Question but do hospitals provide towels?

Thinking about my hospital bag, do I pack a towel?

Incognito
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VBAC

Is anyone willing to share there experiences with a VBAC please? Positive or negative, I’m struggling to decide on a birth plan with my second as my first ended up an emergency C-section. Also if anyone had a planned section after a pervious emergency one how did you find the recovery? I’ve seen some people saying...

Incognito
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Struggling with slow labour

Hi all, I am 38 weeks pregnant, been in latent phase of labour for like a week. Worst pains ever but not consistent, just really intense. I went into triage yesterday & was only 1.5cm dilated. They felt like my waters had broken however the swab was negative. HELP. Has anyone else been through this and how long does...

Incognito
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Bath after c section

How long did you wait to have a bath after having a C-section?

T
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