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Leaving baby for the night

Really anxious about leaving my baby stay the night with his aunty for the first time. My partner has planned a surprise birthday party for my 30th birthday tonight and has organised for our son to stay with his sister. Is it terrible that I don’t want to go to the party? I just want to spend the night with my son. ...

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Am I being too hormonal

My fiancé announced to he’s family that we are having our second child. He has 3 brothers all with partners. Is it rude not one of them have bothered to contact me to congratulate me. I know it sounds pathetic I just feel sad.

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Metal Toll

Hi guys, I feel like it’s all started to hit on how hard I am finding motherhood. I absolutely adore my little one and couldnt be more greatful for her. However I just feel like my aniexty is going through the roof and I’m finding the nights really long and hard. She seems to only want to settle on me and no one e...

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Christmas

Hey y’all! What are we getting our kiddos for Christmas? I already got her a few dolls and puzzles but what else should I get? Also stocking stuffer ideas?

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Talk?

Anyone up for a vent session. I’m in desperate need to talk to someone that doesn’t know my family.

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Just a rant

I have a 4 1/2 month baby and he’s my first. I feel like people are so judgemental without knowing the dynamic of the house of what goes on in the day. I’ve been told I give too much tv time but I only put it on for 15 minutes when I’m trying to eat. He doesn’t play with toys for a long time as he gets bored quickly...

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Bf don’t want anyone else in the delivery room

Hi, So I’m on my second pregnancy with this man and the first time I have him what he wanted. No one else in the delivery room. This time I can’t bare it. I am so close to my sisters and family that my mom passed away I would have her. He’s constantly wanting me to choose him and him alone or nothing. If I have my ...

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Hubby sleeping out

Hi mommas. Most weekends, my hubby sleeps outside after hanging out with his friends. He doesn't come home and most times he doesn't call me and if he does, he will say he is coming home but never came home and I am currently pregnant and also with an infant. I feel unhappy most times because we have just been marri...

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In laws drama

I am sick to death with my in laws. Everytime I take my baby to their house which is once a week someone always has something to say. If it's not the grandma saying things like "I know him and why he's crying" how does she know my child better than me? She doesn't! She tries to undermine me . It's almost as if she t...

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Overstimulated 😫

My son goes w/ his dad every other weekend and I usually am ready for the break by the time it’s his weekend even though I miss him, yesterday I had to take off and pick him up early bc he was sick at daycare and I called off and kept him home today too this was his weekend to go w/ his dad but anytime he goes over...

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Should I leave my husband already

We recently welcomed our daughters a month ago and I’ve been dealing with ppd and lack of proper sleep he works and takes the night shift so I can sleep since I’m a SAHM It has been an issue since I got pregnant that he won’t clean or pick up after himself and I’m exhausted with being with our girls and constantly h...

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Baby doesn’t like being near his dad

Does anyone else’s baby not like being left with their dad? I know they have preferences but whenever I leave the room he’s in hysterics and it’s quite upsetting for both of us. Is this normal?

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Crying babies

What do you do when you have a 2 year old and 8 month old and it’s crying all day, sometimes simultaneously. My husband is gone for 2 weeks at a time and I’m losing my mind. Are there sahm who genuinely enjoy this bc I don’t know what to do. I try to plan activities, keep them busy, go places and it’s tantrums all...

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Can 6month olds have petit flous yoghurt?

Does it contain cows milk and sugars ?

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Potty training help

My 3.5 year old refuses to poop on the potty and freaks out every time I try anything to get him on there. He’s fine with peeing on the potty. Any tips or tricks??

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Nursery

If your LO goes to nursery how many days/hours do they do? I can’t help but feel guilty for sending him in general he goes twice a week and gets very upset.

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Starting solids…

Any good weaning charts or websites that are good to refer to? My LB will be 6 months soon and looking for good tips / guides to help with weaning /solids etc. Thank you 🙏

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Does anyone else find their partner is somewhat disconnected from their pregnancy at times?

I don’t know if it’s due to the hormones/pre natal depression, but I find myself getting easily irritated by my husband, who seems somewhat disconnected from the pregnancy lately. Don’t get me wrong he is good around the house etc, and does a lot for me, but sometimes he seems unaware and selfish - we often eat lat...

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So what would u do

MIL never calls or messages about her only grandchildren Doesn’t visit Didn’t invite us to thanksgiving Etc Would u go to Xmas dinner? We’re apparently invited

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Is this lazy parenting?

My 21 month old is learning to help out and clean up. While I'm alone with her during the day I'll take a break and instruct on how to clean up and she does it. She cleans up toys or throws away trash while I relax.

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