Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

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Sex

It's been 8 weeks pp and my husband hasn't initiated sex. I feel unwanted . Am I wrong to think that...

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Have you ever been in a social situation and overanalysed everything you said and done afterwards?

I have social anxiety, it was my daughters birthday party yesterday. I made an effort to speak to all of the parents/grandparents of my daughters friends. We had 10 who confirmed RSVP & 1 who did not comfirm turn up. So we had to buy 1 more party favour on the day. In the end every child got something {I'd have bou...

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Cerclage removal

Hi girlsss, I’m due to have a cerclage out in 9 weeks. I know it seems like a long time but i’m extremely scared. I would like to hear some of your experiences, please be honest happy to hear any story everyone’s experience is different.

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Sad

I just had the most emotionless, depressing sex ever with my husband. I feel so sad having sex with him and I am not able to control my sadness. He didn’t notice I was crying during the sex because the room was dark. I just came to the bathroom, sat on the floor sobbing softly and typing this. I am not so sure why I...

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Pre teen girl drama

For the moms who are raising or have raised pre teens when does the drama ever start. It just seems like every other day there is another fight, my daughter crying one girl going out of her way to be mean. The girl will apologize and despite me telling my daughter to not be friends with her she does it anyway. I’m ...

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Tantrums, clingy, and constant whining

My little girl is 17 months old. I feel like I can't catch a break. I'm a sahm and 22 weeks pregnant. The tantrums are constant and inconsolable. The whining is non stop unless I take her out to the park, but the moment I put her back in the car, the happiness is gone and the tantrums start again. I can't eat, use...

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PP hair loss

There’s an area on my hairline where I almost look bald! Is it coming back? Is there anything I can do to help growth?!!! Please help!

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Today I heard someone say “if you’re grieving process hurts other people, you need to change the way you grieve”

I’ve been thinking about that. Agree or disagree?

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Up and down

Anyone else really up&down with their moods. I know its totally normal but tonight is a low one i am just so stressed about what’s to come and having two children under two. I feel so much guilt surrounding my first and how i’m going to cope and i just feel like crying every time i think about it💔

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Pain relief

What did you have? What do you recommend? What should I avoid? 💊💉

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Am I the asshole?

Ever since I found out I was pregnant I knew I didn’t want my in laws in the hospital for my delivery not the next day. The thing is that I ended up giving up to my husband wanting them, so they went to the hospital after my c-section to meet the baby. I was planning on breastfeeding but since I had a c-section my ...

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End of marriage 😔

Any UK based mums, if anyone knows or experienced, could you please advise me on how to navigate break up of a marriage, what do I do, how do I start, I’m completely lost but I know it needs to be done for my and my children’s mental health . Being in a toxic environment isn’t good for them at all. Thank you in adva...

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The postpartum

It’s sad. I always say I need time to myself. But the moment I get a few hours of myself I can’t help but sit here and cry my eyes out. I am so use to spending every minute with my daughter I don’t even know what to do once she’s not around. I can’t help but think oh they aren’t going to do what I do when I watch he...

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Baby fell

This is a really sensitive subject for me. I’m struggling with PPD and already feel like my baby deserves better than me. Yesterday my baby fell off a footstool in our living room, I haven’t stopped crying about it. Literally turned my back for a second. One day he wasn’t moving then it seems over night he’s on the ...

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Mama mental struggles..😢

Any tips on how to just enjoy the newborn stage? My heart is so abundantly in love with our baby boy (first time mama too) but my head feels so full of worry/anxiety 24/7... that I am in fear I'm not enjoying him as much as I should be. 😔 Just don't want to look back on this time and feel like I've not made the…

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Ppd- when does it get better?

I have a 2 year old and a 7 month old. And I've been dealing with PPD. Not officially diagnosed or treated, but I've been dealing with generalize anxiety disorder and seasonal depression for years, so I recognize it as similar but different.

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Circumsision

What’s the latest you guys have gotten your baby circumcised my baby is almost 5 months and I’ve yet to get him circumcised but I just can’t afford it right now .. and I’m scared that ima hurt him by getting it later but I can’t afford it

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Mother in law basically told me I’m not a real mother

She literally started talking about something, I forgot what it was bc I was so bothered by what she said “Me that I’m an actual mother because I actually gave birth” my response was “people love talking shit about c section mothers but we are literally being cut open 7 layers and the recovery process is way longer ...

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I know this is normal but I just need a space to share what I’m feeling.

My 21 month old will scream, screech and cry the whole time I cook. I do home cooked meals and will usually only need an hour to make whatever we eat, and the whole hour my little one is screaming screeching and crying. I put a show on for her to watch, have her on the highchair near me, give her wooden spoons, pots...

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Falling down the stairs

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and feel down the stairs I was also carrying my 8 month old I feel so guilty and bad I know u can’t help falling but I feel shit 😞 luckily my baby’s are fine I’m hurt but don’t care about me feel so bad

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