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Crying baby

We’ve started a couple of classes recently with my LO she’s 3 months and she’s just screams. She’s not hungry, tired, or the usual tick boxes. I’m not sure if she’s just overwhelmed at the new experiences and I’m not sure what to do. So that she can get something out of them, and so she’s not just crying through the...

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First period PP

What was your first period like after giving birth?

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Pelvic floor back to normal?

Like when will my pelvic floor go back to something like normal? I’m running to the toilet and at times not making it and having to hold myself like a child. I’ve been doing pelvic floor exercises but doesn’t seem to be helping. I’m 8 weeks pp.

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2nd baby with prolapse

Hi, is it possible to have a second baby safely after having a uterine prolapse after my first baby?

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Boyfriend

So I’ve been with my man year and half and long story short I’m just not happy anymore I’m falling outta love for him and I’m depressed and I just can’t take it anymore how can I get him to break up with me cuz I tried to break up with him but he cries none stop and begging me to take him back how I can get him. To ...

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BF vs baby 2

Anyone torn between stopping BF to (hopefully bring back period) and keeping going? I want to try for baby number 2 as I’m 33 but I’m still BF (night weaned and 3x a day ish but still no period). The guilt is real

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Mental health

Any one else really struggling or got any advice I'm struggling to the point I'm not sure I can do this anymore. I've signed up for therapy but that doesn't start until Friday and can't get a GP appointment for weeks. Is there anyone else I can call

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Relationship after birth

Hi everyone just wanted to know if ur relationship suffered after birth? Mine I feel we have got more distance, more frequent augment and disagreement etc I’m not to sure if it’s me being tired and constant with the baby or if it’s anything else

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Help

i think im actually loosing it im rocking her but hearing her cry but she’s not crying what is going on

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Pregnant with a toddler

Any moms out there struggling with the guilt of having another baby while already having one? It’s been a rough pregnancy mentally.

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Desperate

I'm so beyond desperate for help with my 9 month old. I had my appendix removed. And I'm not allowed to lift more than 10 lbs. My daughter's 23lbs. My husband works 6 days a week and is out of PTO. My mother can't help she has cancer heart failure and other things. I have no friends or anyone else here. I'm not from...

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Baby’s hair

My daughter had a full head of hair when she was born but it’s now thinning and falling off. She also has cradle cap, but her doctor prescribed something for that already. My question is what can I do to make it stop falling and grow back? Every day, the front of her head has less and less hair, idk why this is happ...

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Mourning

So my daughter was born 15th Oct and my dad passed 7th Dec. I’m really struggling to maintain my emotions, specially around my two teenagers. I feel completely alone holding in all this pain.

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Anybody feeling like me?

Hi everyone! I need to vent.. I’m over it.. Don’t get me wrong I’m so grateful and bless but I’ve reach to the point where I’m desperate. I want to have my baby now. I don’t want to be pregnant anymore I feel so freaking uncomfortable. I’m miserable. I know the hormones definitely are not helping but Jesus.. I’m so ...

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Wanna run away

I’m a new multi kid mom. I have a 3 year old I adore and a 2 week old. I’m getting enraged and yelling. Blowing up on him. I scare him I can tell. I’m just running out of patience and today my husband worked until bedtime at 7 pm. I feel like no one is understanding what I’m going through. They say they want to help...

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Not coping at all

I can’t cope with any of it. Motherhood is so incredibly hard. Every single part of my life is taken over with it, I am absolutely miserable. I don’t even recognise myself anymore, I hate who I am. I am exhausted. Mentally and physically I feel broken, it honestly feels like I’m dying inside it’s so heavy. When wi...

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What's the best remedy to stop racing thoughts

It's out of control I need help. Lorazepam helps but I can only take a tiny tiny bit. I need every and all ideas. How long does postpartum anxiety actually last because I'm coming up to 2 years

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Symptoms of depression

I've lost interest in food/eating now. On top of crying almost daily, being tired, not wanting to do anything and other things. My son is the only thing keeping me going. In 5 days I've eaten maybe 4-5 times. Only 2 were meals. The rest were snacks. I have severe depression and anxiety plus minor PTSD.

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What do I do about my mil?

I do not have any respect for my MIL. When I was still pregnant, she told me that her son will not be a good dad and will be just like his father. I cut off my relationship with her because how could you say that about your son? Anyways, we havnt seen her since October and it’s now January. We’ve made plans to have ...

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I'm in full blown panic mode..

I have an 18 month old daughter and am due my 2nd in about 4/5 weeks and I am genuinely having a complete panic. Im so scared and don't understand how people do it. My 18m old is at the point of tantrums, sleep regression (she usually sleeps well but struggling at the moment) and just lots of screaming (she cannot s...

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