Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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Would you say it’s somewhat your “duty” to help your SO keep up with their hobbies/things that make them happy

And vice versa of course! Not your responsibility but if they said they wanted to keep up with something would you remind them or if they haven’t done something that makes them happy In a while would you remind them?

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New single mamma to 2

Hi, I’ve just become single and I’ve got 2 little boys, anyone else in the same boat? How do you cope? Advice or someone to talk to would be helpful. Thanks x

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A bit lonely.

Does anybody feel a bit lonely? Feels like everybody is on vacation and enjoying their lives while I’m at home pregnant with nothing to do. Can anybody relate?

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Loneliness

I finally feel like I can juggle a nearly 4 year old and a 3 week old.. just took me 3 weeks to adjust! Problem is I’m severely lonely and feel a deep dread when I’m on my own in the house with the children. My MIL is staying this week to help as my partner is working away but I can’t stand the thought of next week ...

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No village

Any tips for coping with 2 kids and no real support network? Stay at home mum to two under 5, home ed, neurodivergent child, husband struggling with low mood, grew up with a narcissist, in laws are elderly (but try to help bi weekly), house needs work. Feels like the odds are stacked against us and we have no one ch...

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Anyone else struggle WFH??

My job has become 100% remote 2 months ago and I'm struggling with feeling a bit lonely now. I've wanted the house to myself for soooo long (I have a 20 month old) and now he's in daycare and my partner is in the office the days I work so it's just me! Any tips?

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Sending love & solidarity

To those who didn’t get their first choice. We didn’t either & absolutely gutted is an understatement 💔

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Going out with LO

I feel so bad when I don't go out with my LO, like for example yesterday we didn't go out and today we aren't going out (may pop to shops to return a parcel) but other than that I dont see the point of just aimlessly going out and spending money I don't have (even parks you have to pay to park) we go out once a week...

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Single mum - breakup

Hi again! i posted earlier having a rant about becoming a single mum yesterday at 20 years old at 37 weeks pregnant. how do you even cope with you and the dad to your son parting ways. i’m devastated. i feel like my life has ended and all i feel is guilt to my son. my anxiety is bad and i can’t breathe. i have no fr...

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Anyone else feel super lonely?

This whole maternity stay,having to stay at home til baby Is able to be exposed is so lonely and Moms with toddlers? What are you doing!? I wake up so tired, I don’t have energy for activities. Im at a blank What do I put my 3yr old to do!? She’ll only color.draw for 10min And with crying newborn It’s so much ...

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Loneliness

I have recently feel like I’m falling into Depression with being lonely. My husband works early morning to late night to make it possible for me to stay home with our little one and I feel bad for being sad because he does everything for me and my little one but I get so lonely and feel like I have no one. I have fr...

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Honest

Nobody tells you how lonely it is when you become a mom, all the friends I did have are all now living their 20’s partying and drinking while I’m at home with my kids. Don’t get me wrong I love the life I choose it’s just sometimes I wish I had another girl to call and talk about things with yea it’s not gonna be ab...

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Final round interview thoughts

Does this look promising? During my 2 interview she said she hopes I’m picked . Final interview i couldn’t gage how she felt for sure . She mentioned she heard nothing but great things about me . At the end she asked my salary expectations and when i would be able to begin (if hired) nothing as to when i would ...

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Alone time

Have you left your baby yet? If so, how long did you wait and what did you do with your first solo time?

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Struggling

Anyone else really struggling at the minute? The days seem to go by so slowly and I feel like I’m not doing enough and it’s just like living the same day over again. I don’t have a lot of help from my partner and i just feel like I’ve completely lost myself.

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Baby talk

I’m back to work and find it such an adjustment being around people who never talk about babies (which I completely understand haha) I feel like I got so used to all my interactions being with other mums on maternity leave and actually feel quite sad leaving this maternity bubble behind. I know this sounds a bit unf...

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Breakup :/

Guys how can I get over a breakup 😩 it’s not with my baby dad it was my bf I was with for a year. I called it off last week and we haven’t spoken since. I felt pretty good about it at the time but today I feel a bit rubbish about it😣 I don’t have many friends where I live and my family is not nearby too. Any…

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Career?

When I was little I dreamed to be an Animation artist and then I remember someone asking me “why do you want to be an animator?” And I strong said “ because I want to be able to make other happy and laugh. I want this world to be happy and if I can do that through a cartoon, then that’s all the joy I need.” Now I’m ...

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Do you ever feel this way?

Has anyone came across old friends from university on social media and feel really behind in life? They seemed so successful in life , they have more children, making more money, having a lux life style, and always seem so happy. I know I shouldn’t compare at all. I don’t usually. But for a second when I saw their p...

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Good people

From what you've leaned in life so far, what percentage of humans are good?

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