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First time mum- first time staying at home

Prior to my baby who’s only 11 weeks. I’ve always been working and been super independent. I went on maternity leave with no plans of going back to work. I love most aspects of being a stay at home mum but some days it’s really hard to get the hang of always being home with no routine outside of living from one feed...

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I can’t do this alone

My mom is leaving in the morning, like 9 hours from now. She lives all the way across the country. I can’t imagine being alone with this baby. What am I gonna do? I’ve been just following her lead, and now I’m going to have nothing. I have to restart work next week! I’m so scared. I’m crying because I wish she could...

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Is anyone else struggling? 😭

Hi guys. I'm sorry to rant but I'm literally in tears in bed currently just finding life so hard ATM, constantly tired, stress at work since returning, always arguing with my husband, the house is always a mess, I hardly have any friends for support. Days like this are just f**cking crap... Sorry for my French 🙈…

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Feeling lost & lonely

Please tell me i’m not alone 😩 I moved to Barnsley a few years ago and met my partner at work. We now have 2 children together. Apart from people i work with i dont really know anyone and have no friends (my partner is my manager and i work with my mum, MIL and sister in law) I just feel stuck at home with 2…

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Loneliness Vent

I’ve been feeling very lonely lately. I have 2 amazing babies (2y and 10m) and an amazing partner but the days feel repetitive and I have no one to really talk to. I feel like all of my friends abandoned me once I had my second child. I don’t know if they feel like I can’t go out anymore because I have 2 small kids ...

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Random question notes on a bridge *possible trigger*

There’s a bridge near me where people leave little notes tied to it. Positive notes which seem to be aimed at people who might jump. Things like ‘each day is a new day’ ‘you are loved’ that sort of thing. The notes keep being removed then a few weeks later replaced. Can you think why they wouldn’t just be left?

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I cannot stand my MIL🫠

She is manipulative, constantly guilt tripping and is boundary-pushing. Along with the side comments towards me. I can’t decide if I should keep challenging her with these comments or completely ignore her and do the minimum. I have so much going on , I just do not have the energy for it.

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Healthy anxiety mumma?

Anyone on here got Health anxiety? Just wondered if anyone else was on here that is in the same sort of boat with me and I can relate to 🥰

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Any single mothers with little to no support system

How are you managing to cope as a single mother with no support system no village ? I’m struggling the two people that kinda help me make it clear they don’t want to be minding or helping me with my son. Anyone a single mother with multiple kids with no village ? I’d like some insight on how yous are doing as rn I f...

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Friendless mama

I feel so lonely since i moved out from home 6 years ago. I lost all my friends. My best friend was the only one who stuck by me unfortunately he died last august and now i feel lonely having no1 to talk too, i miss him so badly, i have a partner but its not the same there's certain things i cant talk to him about. ...

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To all 💕

Just wanted to introduce myself. I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety my entire adult life. Now 34 with two teenagers and a newborn… talk about Life360. To top that off, I’m the sole provider to my family and my dad, who struggled with Bipolar throughout his later years, died just before Christmas. I’d jus...

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Does anyone else feel so alone doing this?

Does anyone else feel so alone doing this? Doing my first FET this month after a failed fresh embryo transfer in November. I feel like I’m going crazy and have no one to talk to. My husband is really nice and caring but it’s not the same. My mum just tells me it will happen when it happens but doesn’t seem to unders...

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Friends

Has anyone else lost friends since being pregnant? I’ve just lost my best mate who happened to be my only mate and it’s incredibly lonely.

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Still struggling with work

I just want to be a present mum to my little boy :( I don’t want to work at all ever again but I’m full time atm and I’m really struggling with it emotionally Is anyone else feeling the same way?

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⌚Routine⌚

are you a stickler for the daily routine- like it must be followed?

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struggling to reach out

hey mamas. i usually comment out in the open but this post i’m a bit scared to post. don’t know why. i guess im exposing my fears to the world. but im really lonely .. like reaalllyyy lonely. i’m from london and moved to birmingham about 5 years ago. found my husband and never ever made any friends and lost all my f...

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Childcare

Mums who have no childcare/ family to watch kids if you wanna go out with the girls etc how do u cope i always feel like im missing out and it gets me so down ☹️

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Advice

How have other new mothers dealt with being lonely and just not feeling like yourself? My partner works a lot, I don’t really have a lot of friends after moving back to wales after living in Birmingham for a few years and my family hate coming to my house because my 1 year old dog gets very hyper when people come in...

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Is this normal? X

Hiya I have a 1 year old but recently I’ve been really wanting another baby, I’m not sure if I’m in the right position to have one yet as we’re renting and trying to save for a house as we want our own place. Is it normal to want to have another baby so badly that you feel down a lot. Idk if I’m just being silly or ...

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Agree or disagree

Can trust be re earned?

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