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How are you/did you mentally prepare yourself for a c-section?

I'm likely to be having a c-section but feel like I need to mentally prepare, as I'm not really a planner so feel like the thought of it is going to play on my mindšŸ˜‚

S
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Home Birth

Hi ladies, I was wondering if anyone here has had a home birth and what your experience was like/would you recommend it etc? Thank you

M
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Induced 2 weeks early

Has anyone ever been induced 2 weeks early due to pelvic girdle pain? My physio said to speak to my midwife about it as Iā€™m struggling a lot with the pain now and she said if the pain is bad at 38 weeks I could possibly be induced then as itā€™s the only way to get rid of the pain is give birth

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Water / watery discharge @ 39 weeks

I thought my waters broke yesterday, went to get it checked and they said there was no sign - today I have had really watery discharge? Does anyone know what this is? X

L
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Anybody had their baby at Wellstar Cobb ?

Iā€™m due In January & my ob Is at wellstar. So far wellstar at vinnings obgyn has been absolutely amazing but I wanted to know has any momā€™s had their baby at Wellstar Cobb. I have a hospital tour In November but I just want to hear some experience.

V
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Going out with 2 children

When did you start going out with both your children? My newborn is 2 weeks old and I've been out with both of them and my partner/my dad but never on my own. When did you start getting out with both of them?

B
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Recommended hospital (Dudley)

Ok so Iā€™ve given birth at city hospital and I loved my experience, I just love how friendly the staff was. And I would love to give birth there again. But Iā€™m moving out soon, to Dudley area, so Iā€™ll be quite far from city hospital. So anyone familiar with the area and tell me the most recommended hospital? Als...

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Elective c sectionsšŸ‘£šŸ¤

Hey loves! Has anyone opted for an elective c-section? Iā€™m thinking about going down this route but not entirely sure how to go about asking for it and wondering if I still can opt for this? Iā€™m 32 weeksšŸ¤

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Planned c-section at Pembury

For anyone that had a planned c-section at pembury hospital, how far in advance did you find out your c-section date? Also, do you have a recovery tips? Anything I should buy? How long were you in hospital for?

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Pee or water break?

I will absolutely call my doctor buttttt anyone peed themselves overnight? It seemed like a lot of water and didnā€™t smell like pee. Iā€™m 30+2 today and concerned itā€™s my water. I guess Iā€™d rather be embarrassed by peeing myself šŸ˜‚

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Bloody show and mucus plug

How long after having bloody show and losing mucus plug labour started for you? šŸ„°

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Induction

Just been offered an induction due to the babyā€™s weight dropping a littleā€¦ whatā€™s everyoneā€™s opinions on inductions?

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Early bloody show

Iā€™m 36 weeks and had a lot of unusual looking discharge today. I saw my midwife and showed her photos and she thinks itā€™s my bloody show! Has anyone experienced bloody show and not gone into labour for a while after? I feel pretty prepared so if I go into labour then so be it but I wanted to know if anyone has had t...

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Getting back in shape Post C section

I had a c section over 3 years ago in 2021, Iā€™m 30 and at 175 and I want to lose weight so badly but I donā€™t know whatā€™s the best program or style of exercise that is best suited for women whoā€™ve had a c section. Any suggestions? Should I go for personal training? Weights/strength training? Yoga? Pilates? Something ...

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Did anyone face ingrown hair on the c scar?

I have a blocked follicle right on my scar and im tempted to break it open but its on the scar what if it causes infection? Grows bigger or something..

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Slow labor or false labor?

Last night around 7pm I started to have contractions. I was having then every 20 minutes and they started getting closer together, I went for a walk to stimulate more and they got as close as 8 minutes a part. The way they felt was like a back pain that moves to my lower belly and thighs. They werenā€™t necessarily ge...

I
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Bowthorpe medical center

Midwife appointment, can i take my son and partner with me? My last pregnancy was covid rules, so I had to go alone, has that changed now and you can take people? Or is it like ultrasound and no children aloud?

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Buying for baby appointments

Hello, I did anyone go to the buying for baby appointments that are offered in John Lewis + other places? Were they worth it? This is our first baby so we are a bit clueless and I believe it would be really helpful. But also donā€™t want to waste timeā€¦

L
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C section

How long was it until you got a date for a planned c section from signing the forms?

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C section in uk

Hi everyone. Has anyone ever requested a c section rather than vaginal birth? My anxiety is through the roof for vaginal so I am going to request a c section but I wanted to see how to go about this, who to speak to and if I will be able to? I have looked at nhs website and it says I should be granted one if I am ...

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