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Have you ever missed something so much you can physically feel it?

My MIL was admitted to the hospital on Sunday and I flew out to be here with her yesterday because it’s super serious. Anywho. She lives in our old house. In our old town. With all our old neighbors. I miss it here so much. I love our old house. I love our old neighbors. Walking through the house brings me back to ...

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Since giving birth I feel comfortable in the dark or under the covers when doing the deed with my partner.

If you've had a baby, when you have sex do you prefer -

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No desire to have sex

I'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore... Actually any man for that matter 👀 we just had sex because it's his birthday and I felt bad not having... I know that's not ideal.. I felt nothing like kind of numb to it 😕 also I'm finding myself more attractived to the female body! Idk what to do!

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Postpartum rage

I’m really really struggling right now I have a nearly 7 month old and 2 year old I’m getting so angry at my baby she never sleeps it takes hours to get her to sleep she’s up half the night I’m so sleep deprived and stressed I’ve tried talking to my partner but he makes it a competition over who’s more tired because...

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Products for postpartum hair loss?

Can anyone recommend any good shampoos or hair serums they’ve used during postpartum hair loss at all please? My little one is three months and I’m losing so much hair every time I wash my hair (currently only dare once a week) as I’m getting a huge handful of hair fall out each time. Already taking a Biotin sup...

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Resources on how to be a better wife?

Need help. My partner says I’m selfish, childish, not willing to change. Ps I’m overwhelmed mother of 2 under 2 and going through post partum depression/ rage. I really need to save my relationship and everything I try is wrong. At this point we are just roommates and he says all the love is gone so what’s the point...

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Super emotional starting nursery

My little girl starts nursery tomorrow and I am so overly emotional about it. She did ok at her settling in sessions, she wasn't crying when I arrived to pick her up. I just feel completely overwhelmed at the thought of leaving her all day, guilt because I'm not actually at work tomorrow and sadness that my maternit...

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Tired of ex mother in law…

I never enjoy her visits when she comes round to see my daughter. Shes very judgmental and when me and her son first found out i was pregnant and told her (i was 6-7weeks pregnant) she told me to get rid of it up until 26ish weeks pregnant. I understand its a big adjustment and stuff and if she said give me time to ...

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MIL Issues

My husband and I don’t ask my MIL to watch our 16 month daughter because we don’t trust his mom alone with her. I honestly prefer not to be around her as well so we haven’t really seen her either. She’s a narcissist who only thinks about herself and is constantly talking negatively about people, even her own kids. S...

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3 weeks PP - itchiness down there

Almost 3 weeks postpartum and I am SO itchy down there. I had an episiotomy so have had stitches which have/are healing well, but it doesn’t feel itchy where the stitches were so I’m really confused what’s causing this. It is unbearable and constant. What can I do to relieve this??

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Emotions

Has anyone been feeling emotional lately. I’ve been on an emotional roller coaster for the last three days and I don’t know even know why

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Really need support.

Hi, Can anyone please help me. I’m 28 and I suffer with extreme health anxiety. I’m constantly body checking and scared. I don’t know what to do anymore, I am feeling extremely low and in a dark place and I don’t know what to do. Please any words of encouragement, support. Anything.

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Pray for my baby girl

Ariah has recently started blinking her eyes constantly. We immediately took her to the doctor. The doctor is hoping it's just from possibly getting or being sick as it's been going around and through our family... BUT he also had to tell us worst case scenario which is a chance of a brain tumor or lesion in her bra...

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Feeling sad

I feel like a horrible mom. I got upset with my son when I was trying to change his diaper and I yelled at him. He wouldn’t lay still and kept trying to take it off as I was trying to put it on. He looked so scared. I’m such a horrible person. I never thought I would ever yell at him.

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Dry aaasss hair??!

lol this pregnancy is really hard, dealing with spots on my face + back and now really dry knotty hair 😮‍💨

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My iud didn’t work

Just found out I’m pregnant again 5 months postpartum

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PP Hair Loss

Is anyone experiencing PP Hair Loss? I'm starting to go bald at the sides slowly. Big chunks of hair is coming out every time I brush my hair or just casually run my fingers through my hair. What are people using or doing to support it?

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Newborn struggles

My mental health is in the absolute gutter . My newborn is 2 weeks and she’s got a gunky eye , milk blister and she’s also showing all the signs of infant dyschezia and oh my is it ruining my mental health . She’s just never seems to be right . I hate it every noise she makes I’m worried about , I just want her to b...

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Is it normal for me to feel this way?

Long story short, I have a girlfriend that had her baby just 4 months after me. From pregnancy up until now, she's been messaging me to ask me everything and ESPECIALLY for products that I bought for my baby. Shes been pretty much asking me the weirdest most irrelevant shit like 'if I invited my close relatives to m...

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Mental health

My mental health isn't at a good point. I've suffered from depression for a long time and it's been pretty bad the past 2 years. I cry almost every day, don't want to do things, either over eat or don't eat at all, don't want to talk or be around people... I'm in counseling but wondering if I should be seen more. Be...

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