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unpopular opinion/what is happening to humanity

So, about the ceo dying. Obviously killing another human being is awful but he did some disgusting things. I am in NO way defending him. I think he needed to be punished for what he has done to many families including MY family. But, my cousin who is also my best friends works for the company. She answers phone call...

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My husband screamed at our baby

My 9 month old is going through a biting phase. It used to be that she just bit me, but recently she bit both my parents and tonight she bit my husband for the first time. He immediately pulled her off his shoulder and screamed at her and then stated "I don't want to play with you anymore". He then placed her on the...

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Bleeding still almost 2 months pp

I got an iud placed at my 6 week postpartum checkup, I have had it now for almost 2 weeks. I have still been bleeding off and on, I was just wondering how soon others stopped bleeding after giving birth? I'm so over feel disgusting even if I just showered.

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Anxiety going back to work - clingy baby

I was meant to go back to work in January but have extended my leave until May (unpaid) as it feels impossible to go back atm. My daughter is EBF, refuses to take a bottle and is severely attached to me to the point she becomes hysterical if I leave the room. There are only a handful of other people she is somewhat ...

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Just a rant

Just venting I'm 6 days from my due date and I'm constantly being hounded by my mil telling me she wants my baby born now and it's getting annoying and she does it so much that my SD has started doing it. Not to mention she keeps insisting that I spell my son's name randomly so it can have the letter y in it even w...

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25 weeks and can't stop crying!

Anyone else? I feel like my hormones have well and truly taken over. The smallest of things just set me off šŸ™ˆ also feeling guilty about my 3 year old not been my baby soon and I keep crying at how quickly he's grown up. I'm finding it all too much 😢

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Transitioning 1 to 2 - please tell me it gets better.

I don’t even know where to start. I had my second baby December 22nd and all I do is cry. I feel so guilty bringing another baby into this world even though my first is embracing it and handling it so well. It feels like I want nothing to do with my newborn and I feel like such a terrible mom. I feel like I am so no...

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Hormones

Is it normal to just be crying every single day for absolutely no reason! Everything feels like it’s tipping me over the edge and I can’t stop the tears! Think I’ve cried about 5-6 times today for nothing!

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Grief during pregnancy

Hi everyone. I lost my Grandmother to spinal cancer during my second trimester, we were extremely close and it was a long and painful death. I really struggled with my emotions trying my best to not affect my baby, I found myself trying to suppress waves of grief that would come over me usually after being triggere...

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Pain while having sex after birth

I want to start this off by saying I am 10 months pp. Ever since giving birth, it literally feels like I’m re-tearing every time I have sex. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t remember the last time I enjoyed sex. My daughter had shoulder dystocia and was 9lbs so I got a ton of stitches and had a pretty bad tea...

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Hernia

Anyone experienced there newborn having a hernia (belly button)?? 🄺

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Postpartum depression

I’m struggling so bad mentally and I don’t know what to do I don’t know how to explain the feeling except for numb angry and uninterested in everything I can’t bond with my twins or even my toddler anymore I feel so alone and my mom who was supposed to be staying with me and helping me isn’t going to anymore because...

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Shout out to my husband!

He somehow fought through sleep deprivation to get me help when he realized that I was going through postpartum depression. I’m so grateful for him.

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What alternative to medication are you guys using for your postpartum depression?

I was just diagnosed last night and it was a little bit of a shock to my system, but I’m working through it and I’m grateful for a good therapist, an amazing midwife and an incredible village of wonderful womenšŸ’• because of the amount of support that I have I’m able to extend some resources or some suggestions for…

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Preteen girl driving me crazy

I don’t know what to do anymore. My daughter is 12 and just always rude. Says the meanest things then when she gets in trouble or grounded for it fights me to no end. Blames me for everything. Says she just gets angry and I should accept that and simply always be nice to her even when she is rude. I’ve talked to ot...

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Those who have Narc mums… if you have one please comment what you’d do.

So I’ve made an effort with my lg to see her over the past few months and then we had a massive fallout (my side is that I told her she constantly chipped at my confidence and she needed to stop because she always made me feel like shit) She then she belittled me, told me she never wanted to see me again, told me I...

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Any advice?

So I’ve gone no contact with my mom a few times since moving out and especially since becoming a mom. I hadn’t seen her in a year and I’m currently visiting at her house because I missed her and my younger siblings. But the longer I’m here the more I remember why I went no contact. Everyday I’m constantly battling b...

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Postpartum depression

Is it a thing to still have postpartum depression when your little is 2yo? Or am I just depressed and need help?šŸ˜‚

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Is this normal

Sorry to bother you all but was wondering if anyone could tell me if my feelings are normal. So this is now my second Christmas without having my family being around. We fell out due to big family drama and my mum being a Narcissistic and getting my whole family against me. I just feel so lonely. The start of the ye...

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Am I way too anxious?! Baby around ill people

I'm definitely aware that I have post partum anxiety.. not news to me, but I was wondering what everyone's take is on having baby around people who are ill? My partner's family came round yesterday and one of their kids had a cough (no other symptoms, just coughing a lot). Kept coughing on his hand then touching my ...

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