Community Posts, Tips & Support on Health & Wellbeing

Honest, unfiltered, and in real-time: what women like you are talking about. Peanut group chats, support, and posts on Health & Wellbeing.

Anyone else charge postage and packaging for buying presents?

For example my mum brought me a birthday present and then messaged me asking for money for the postage and packaging? When I buy presents for people I don’t ask them for money for it.

Incognito
4
12

Resigning after Mat Leave

Do you still get your maternity holiday accrued paid for, along with normal leave and notice? Boss is really fucking me over, he agreed to do a settlement but I don't know what I'm entitled to regarding mat leave holiday. (Going to call pregnant than screwed tomorrow/ACAS)

Incognito
25

Making Weird Friends

I just want to know if any ladies wanna be friends and join me at this day care I think it’s for woman idk I’ll find out first before we go 😂

E
10
11

friends?

hi! im a 26 yo FTM and really need some friends. haven’t really made any new friends in years and none of the ones i have are moms and it’s really rough and lonely out here. currently a SAHM and NEEEED adult interaction lol! please feel free to message me (sorry if we’ve talked before and the convo died bc of me im ...

v
8
9

Lonely

Hi, so basically I’m really fucking lonely. My partner works 6-5 most days. My family live 45 minutes away and I don’t drive. None of my friends come to see me and I’m too anxious to do anything but take baby for a walk on my own. I do go to baby sensory one day a week but even there I have no one to talk to, everyo...

Incognito
2
12

Ex partner.

Not directly baby related so hope nobody minds this post. I’m due to have a baby with my current partner of 3.5 years in a few days time however I’ve still not told my ex partner, father to my teenage son (14) that I am pregnant and the simple reason being I’m too scared to. We were together for 10 years before sep...

Incognito
4

Return to work

Hi! How are you all coping with the thought of going back to work? I should be off until the beginning of May but just thinking about returning to work stresses me out. She will stay at home with me until September, that’s when she will go to nursery 3 days a week but it just upsets me to think that we won’t have...

E
2
11

Would you compromise?

Hello so my partner and I have been together for 4 years. I am 3 years older and prob more experienced in Sex I am a giver I love to please and open to more he is not. Sex is great don’t get me wrong but sometimes going out of the Box and doing different things would be nice. So my partner had never gone down on a w...

Incognito
19

Feeling overwhelmed

Can anyone relate to this? I’m 26 and going to be a first time mum in May and absolutely sh***ing myself. I’m emotional about it and just already feeling like I’m going to fail…

K
4
4

Sick of non conversation 😒

Ladies message u, so u message back blah blah blah then they don't ask how your kid/s are nothing like if u can't keep the conversation going don't bother messaging RANT OVER!!!

Incognito
2
5

Looking to build a genuine friendship 🫶

This is so cliche I know but I would like to give it a shot and see what happens! I want some mom friends I can click with. We don’t have to live near by or talk everyday. It would be nice to meet someday and our kids grow up knowing about each other. Maybe in the future plan trips as family friends, that type of th...

M
2
7

Trump is in power

The best response? Live your life well. The cumulative effect of our individual thoughts and actions can influence. Humans lie, bully and others will enable it...it's part of the human condition. Doesn't make it acceptable but living your life well is the best antidote (e.g., not causing egregious harm to others by ...

Incognito
8

Why is it so hard to make mum friends 😫

I take my little boy to toddler groups and soft play but my anxiety stops me from talking to other mums. My LO loves other children and is always so happy to be around people I sometimes feel discouraged when everyone is in their own little clique and I feel like we’re so unwelcome. Does anyone else feel this way?

Incognito
7

Adding second bathroom while pregnant

Hi! I am currently 5 weeks pregnant through IVF and my husband and I were thinking about adding a second bathroom where our laundry machine is, but now it’s got me thinking on whether this is safe to do while pregnant. Would be through a contractor, but wondering if you guys have done anything similar or any advice!...

Incognito
3

TMI

I know this is TMI but I need help/ opinions. Ever since I’ve had my second daughter, I’ve had this foul discharge. It’s an egg white/ slimy consistency almost. it ranges from pale yellow to kind of green a little and it kind of smells too. I’ve asked my dr about it and she said “sometimes this is just the new norma...

Incognito
5

looking 4 friends !

I’m a ftm sahm looking for new momma friends! Me and my son are always at home chillin since my husband has our car for work /: there’s only so many things you can do to keep yourself busy before you’re absolutely bored lol. I’m trying to put myself out there — I might come across shy bc I haven’t had human intera...

h
2
6

Gym question(s)

I'm really hoping a personal trainer or someone who is familiar with the gym can help me. I just joined a gym today and I plan to go 3-5 days a week, as my schedule with my daughter allows. I'm not really familiar with using free weights and I worry that if I try to go straight into using them I'll get bored or jus...

Incognito
8

New Friendshipsss🫶🏼

Hey all I’m new to the group! I’m looking for new friends to talk to that won’t judge if possible :) I’m a smoker and I have no friends lol feel free to message me if you’d wanna be friendssss 🥰 or add my snap katelea2 I use that most 😁

K
4
5

Looking to meet new mom friends!

Hi all! I’m looking to meet new mom friends, whether it’s long distance or nearby where we can meet. Motherhood has been a whirlwind and I’m looking to get more moms in my corner for support!

P
3
10

When do you workout?

I’m a full time mum at the moment and currently go to mum and baby fitness classes a couple times a week, walk and run with my baby. I’m going back to work full time in March and I’m trying to decide when I would workout, join a gym or just do more running/home workouts. It’s going to have to fit around work and my lo

Incognito
3

From the Blog

Related articles
All
More
7 Ways to Make Friends in a New City (That Actually Work!)

7 Ways to Make Friends in a New City (That Actually Work!)

By Tassia O'Callaghan
How to Make Friends as an Adult: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Building a Strong Social Circle

How to Make Friends as an Adult: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Building a Strong Social Circle

By Tassia O'Callaghan
“I Have No Friends”: 7 Tips to Find Your BFF

“I Have No Friends”: 7 Tips to Find Your BFF

By Tassia O'Callaghan
460+ Questions to Ask Your Friends to Get to Know Them Better

460+ Questions to Ask Your Friends to Get to Know Them Better

By Tassia O'Callaghan
Is Horniness an Early Sign of Pregnancy or Your Period?

Is Horniness an Early Sign of Pregnancy or Your Period?

By Tassia O'Callaghan
How to Keep a Healthy Relationship After Having a Baby: 7 Tips for Communication, Connection, & Intimacy

How to Keep a Healthy Relationship After Having a Baby: 7 Tips for Communication, Connection, & Intimacy

By Tassia O'Callaghan
Understanding Hyperovulation & What It Means for Your Fertility

Understanding Hyperovulation & What It Means for Your Fertility

By Katie Mill
Amenorrhea & Fertility: Can You Ovulate Without a Period?

Amenorrhea & Fertility: Can You Ovulate Without a Period?

By Katie Mill
Ovulation Nausea: Why You Feel Queasy Mid-Cycle & What to Do

Ovulation Nausea: Why You Feel Queasy Mid-Cycle & What to Do

By Katie Mill
Does Ovulation Make You Horny?

Does Ovulation Make You Horny?

By Katie Mill
Can You Get a Pimple on Your Labia? What Does It Mean?

Can You Get a Pimple on Your Labia? What Does It Mean?

By Katie Mill
Overwhelmed New Mom? 6 Tips to Find Calm & Rediscover Yourself

Overwhelmed New Mom? 6 Tips to Find Calm & Rediscover Yourself

By Tassia O'Callaghan
Can You Get Skin Tags on Your Vagina?

Can You Get Skin Tags on Your Vagina?

By Katie Mill
Why Does My Vagina Burn After Sex?

Why Does My Vagina Burn After Sex?

By Katie Mill
What are Normal Bumps Inside Vaginal Walls?

What are Normal Bumps Inside Vaginal Walls?

By Katie Mill
Innie vs Outie Vaginas: Outie Vaginas Explained

Innie vs Outie Vaginas: Outie Vaginas Explained

By Katie Mill