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Crying babies

What do you do when you have a 2 year old and 8 month old and it’s crying all day, sometimes simultaneously. My husband is gone for 2 weeks at a time and I’m losing my mind. Are there sahm who genuinely enjoy this bc I don’t know what to do. I try to plan activities, keep them busy, go places and it’s tantrums all...

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Does anyone else find their partner is somewhat disconnected from their pregnancy at times?

I don’t know if it’s due to the hormones/pre natal depression, but I find myself getting easily irritated by my husband, who seems somewhat disconnected from the pregnancy lately. Don’t get me wrong he is good around the house etc, and does a lot for me, but sometimes he seems unaware and selfish - we often eat lat...

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So what would u do

MIL never calls or messages about her only grandchildren Doesn’t visit Didn’t invite us to thanksgiving Etc Would u go to Xmas dinner? We’re apparently invited

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Is this lazy parenting?

My 21 month old is learning to help out and clean up. While I'm alone with her during the day I'll take a break and instruct on how to clean up and she does it. She cleans up toys or throws away trash while I relax.

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How to break up

How do I break up with the father of my 2 month old daughter? Like I no longer have feelings for him everything about him makes me mad ,, hes choosing his job over me and my daughter, he never go with me to the doctors appointment even when I was pregnant ,, am tired of feeling mad and being in the bad mood because ...

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At my wits end and just need to vent

I am absolutely losing my mind. I love our son more than anything in the world and I am so happy and thankful to have him but we chose to leave Virginia and come back to Florida when we found out I was pregnant (we were not trying and I was actively and religiously taking my birth control) to be with family to make ...

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nervous

sooo my bd is very active in our childs life BUT he has not provided anything for her. i’ve bought all the formula, diapers, wipes, food, clothes, toys like just name it i’ve bought it all. and it makes me so nervous and scared to ask him for money bc of his situation. his mom was very sick and just got out of the h...

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Holiday’s with the in laws

What would y’all do if your husband’s family is asking for you to take something, but every time you do they always find something bad to say about your food. Once I made pozole and no one ate!! Another time my husband make chicken and they thought I helped him cut the fried they were complaining about how I cut t...

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Feel like I’m going insane!

I keep getting fight or flight level overwhelm and I hate it! My baby was a dream of a newborn but now he’s nearly 5 months he’s tough sometimes! I think the sleep regression is hitting his daytime sleep as he realllllly struggles to nod off and stay asleep! He gets overtired and whingey and the noise makes me want...

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Guilty

I've left my little one for the first time with his dad for more than half an hour....to take my mum to the shops because she's been asking me to take her for ages. And I'm bloody feeling guilty the entire time! Like my partner is annoyed at me. If I don't go I feel guilty for not looking after my mum....ugh!

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Should I be feeling guilty?

So I’ve come home from work and felt a bit off on the train, my tummy is in knots right now and I feel so sick, I’m also currently 23 weeks pregnant. I’ve had to come to bed because the pain is unbearable. It’s gastro so not baby related, but my partner is having to look after our 14 month old. He was saying he was...

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Why is my daughter so much more difficult when her dad is around?

I mean I'm being serious, I thought I was just imagining it or blaming him when really there's no correlation but... no, today he's been away at the office and she has been good as gold every second of the day, even when hungry, tired etc., she was communicating with me and it's been a dream spending the day with he...

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What do I do?

Me and my husband have been living with MIL for almost a year due to financial reasons. I am 15 days post partum and she’s arranged an after birth party for me. This is traditional to our culture but it is usually done 40 days after the birth to give the woman time to heal and adjust to her new life. When MIL told m...

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Should I leave my 2 week old with MIL to attend a birthday dinner?

My baby is 2 weeks and 2 days and my husband and I have been invited to a birthday dinner tonight but I am feeling really guilty about leaving my baby with my mother in law while we step out for a couple of hours to attend this dinner.. I feel like my baby girl might be too young to be apart from me. I also have anx...

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Nursery issues again

Do anyone have this accidents in nurserys. I mean my son's fingers was left today middle door and accident happened? Is this just normal accident in nursery or? I been working in nursery in my life but didn't see like this..Also have before this many issues in nursery. Give so much sweets there to my son. Regular ma...

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Am I overreacting?

So my bd and I were broken up for a few months, and during that time we had no communication. Once we got back together I went through his phone and saw where his mother accused me of doing witchcraft and putting a spell on him, and even going as far as to include my mother in it. Since then, I do not feel comfortab...

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Should we have more accommodations for people on the spectrum?

To clarify I don’t mean to offend anyone by anything I say or if I don’t use right terms please educate me if I am not using the right terms Anyways I see tik tok Videos of moms who feel judged and not seen when they go out. They can’t go to restaurants from fear they will be judged or fear of meltdowns. I feel th...

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Am I just ungrateful?

Before I start let's be clear he didn't call me ungrateful it's just how I feel for being annoyed. My husband loves his child but has always said that he doesn't like baby's only when they're 'cute tolddlers' then when they talk back as well. I always thought it was other people's kids turns out it feels like ours ....

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I'm going to lose my mind....

My 2 year old son is shredding walls...My husband and I are at our wits end and ready scream. I've asked for advice in another group, and as many suggested a sensory bin or shredding paper. We tried that last night, he loved it, received lots of praise for it...I then proceed to wake up to this monstrosity. Which ...

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Anyone with toddlers just struggling?

I had this baby on the 8th and I've already got a 20 month old. He's entered his hitting, screaming and toddler rebellious stage in the last few weeks. This isn't directed at baby at all, I'm just feeling super triggered by this behaviour freshly postpartum. I really want to send him to nursery now and make use of t...

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