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What reward shall we give him?

Hubby informs you he has wiped down the counter and emptied the dishwasher. He’s proud of course

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Am I in the wrong?

Hi ladies, I’ve been given the date of my c section and I’ve told my husband we should keep it between us, which he agrees with but one of the things I’ve struggled with is I told a friend that for the first 5 or so days I would like to not have people over and I want to implement that boundary with both mine and my...

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15 month old at nursery

My boy is going two days a week to nursery every Thursday and Friday this is his 2nd week he's loosing his appetite now I realise is due to change its making me feel guilty I know I need me time but the hard core guilt is hurting. How did you get through it? Sadly I dont have a wide range of support in the family du...

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How many days at nursery do your LOs do?

My son is at nursery full time and I’m really struggling with it. I feel guilty, and he’s also been pushing others which I can’t help but feel is as a result of spending too much time there and not with me. We have baby #2 due in Sept so he will go down to 3/4 days then, but then feel guilty that he will have to s...

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Velcro baby. I’m at breaking point

A few months ago we went through this phase of my daughter being glued to me, not allowing me to put her down even if I’m in the same room right beside her and screaming hysterically if I do put her down. She won’t go to anyone but me including her father and it’s fucking draining I thought we were over it but it’s ...

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Sensory set up -Spring 🌸🌼

We are going to Kew Gardens tomorrow to see Supertato and all the new spring blooms. Just waiting for the ducklings and lambs to appear ☺️ are your littles getting excited for spring?

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How should I plan my get away ?

I just came across screenshots of conversations of my husband of 10 years talking to other woman and at this point I’m tired of it and it ain’t the first time. We share a 5 year and thank God it’s only one. I don’t even want to have a conversation I just want to pack me and my son bags and just leave him a note or b...

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We recently moved and

Husband only wants to get free or almost free used items (offer up/fb marketplace) even if I want to pay for it with my own money (I only work about 15 hours a week so it’s not much) but he doesn’t want me to spend my money and he doesn’t want to buy new things. Even when I find something on marketplace that’s a lil...

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not enjoying motherhood

no judgement please, i feel like i have no one to talk to or no one understands so if even one person reading to this relates i’ll feel happy. my baby is 9 months currently, she’s teething and has dreadful seperation anxiety, as much as i adore being with her and we really do have nice times together she is my world...

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I feel like a terrible mum

I have two daughters, 21m and 8wks. I love them both so much and I am failing them. My 8wk old won't settle on anyone other than me, she refuses dummys and is EBF. My toddler is full on toddler-ing. I also have a dog. My house is a mess. I'm talking MESS. My eldest is demanding so much attention (as she shoul...

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Delivery/babysit

Hey! I’m 36 weeks with my second. I’m getting more and more nervous as we get closer because I am not sure how this will go. The only person we have in the same state is my mom who broke her wrist last week and is in a cast 😩. My first pregnancy, she and my husband were in the delivery room and I had the best…

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Missing when it was just me and my oldest

I thought 1 was hard?? Oh boy I did not expect this! My newborn was asleep when I read my oldest son a bedtime story and I got a feeling like “man I missed this”. Kinda feeling guilty but I know it will surpass once he begins to show his personality and my 3 year old gets used to him being around. He gets so distr...

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Any big sis advice re how to not have a boring life,SM with a son lol

Tell me cool stuff even if it's day to day Seriously thinking about this to role model to my son. Idk what makes me happy anymore I try to take pics and listen to music as much as possible

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Is it worth it?

I feel like I'm doing mine and my kids life all wrong again just because I felt alone and lonely went back to my kids dad. Back and forth through all the rollercoaster moments and been with him on and off 9 yrs. He just got back to work, he been snippy at me more, tone of voice always sounds rude like I'm a bother t...

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MIL basically said she wishes I was dead today…

Just wrapped up an evening with the in laws. We are Canadian and my husband is part owner of a family farm that produces maple syrup, as it’s maple season we have to go out every day to collect the syrup and have started the boiling process. We didn’t have anyone to watch my 8 month old daughter today during collect...

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Question for moms who have kids in school. Or about to go in school.

So we were denied an an iep through the pre school assessment center. And working on trying to get and iep. Because I know a 504 plan is not gonna cut it. Well her speech and ot gave requested a meeting. I sent and email. Asking some questions. I asked where is a she at developmentally for her age, where is she ...

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This is fucking nasty but I’m panicking. I forgot to clean out my carpet cleaner after using it and I come to my bedroom to find it with maggots in it!! What the heck do I do! I’m disgusted and idk wtf to do I don’t even wanna touch it

My husband said it’s to expensive to throw away but I just can’t!

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School aged kids are EASIER than Toddlers

The kids themselves not the schedule. Looking for some perspective because I’m ticked off my SIL keeps complaining about her kids and I’m a bit sick of her.

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In laws

How exactly do you cope with in laws who feel they can say or do whatever because you gifted them their first grand girl they actually get to see often. I am struggling with trying to be nice and not disregard their feelings but it’s somewhat overbearing to hear their options about everything all the time!

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Cry it out?

Ladies after all baby’s needs are met do you let your baby cry it out so you can handle some household duties?

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