Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

A little back story, ss will be 9 next month. Bio mom has always been very difficult to deal with when it comes to time sharing, anything and everything. Not even exaggerating. It’s been hell for me. All the drama. She goes against the court order A LOT!! Does whatever she wants and always wants things her way. Ever...

Can anyone relate… I feel heartbroken and that its so unfair, I have to work to pay someone else to experience lovely moments with my precious child? I feel as though we mothers have endured such a hard year, we alone navigated all the phases and now they are finally more stable and personalities emerging and able t...

Hey guys! I’m currently still pregnant but I’ve been hearing about how some people have had to wear diapers after giving birth and may bleed up to 12 weeks. I was wondering, is the bleeding similar to what a period might look like or is it much worse or different? I’m trying to gauge how much of a break I might need...

I’m almost 38 weeks pregnant. I’ve been feeling a lot of support from my loved ones, except my sister who I haven’t talked to in over a month over a dumb argument. I’m on the right track in life. Just feeling the financial strains a bit since I stopped working. Just hoping for the EDD money to hit by the end of the ...

On social media I keep seeing peoples newborns and it makes me so sad . I didn’t get to cherish when my baby was a newborn he is 3 months which is still very tiny but not newborn tiny 🥹 I had a c section and after I left the hospital I was VERY sick for almost 2 weeks and then I didn’t feel a connection to my baby…

I’m really starting to struggle mentally. Don’t get me wrong I’ve loved every part of this pregnancy up until now. I was told 2 weeks ago I could have a sweep at my 39 week midwife appointment so to my surprise I go today and she said no you have to wait till next week! All I have done is cry ever since. I’m scared ...

When I was pregnant my BD decided one day ( out the blue) he wanted to just be friends. It broke my heart. We were all lovey dovey and very affectionate. Now, he doesn’t show me any affection. He comes to see the baby and we still laugh and talk but when he leaves he won’t even hug me. It hurts me sooo bad. He swear...

My mil is always saying how she can't wait to meet the baby and recently told me that she cannot wait to love on my son when he is born and kiss him ( she did say not on the face) she sometimes makes it sound like this is her baby or that she's overly excited about him and she even has said my baby once or twice whi...

I feel so broken my chest hurts. I was never able to make the man I love as happy as his ex's made him I'm just broken and I'm tired of been down every day

If you had your first baby over 35, were you able to get your pre baby body back? What did you do to get your body back?

I feel so guilty to out my LO in nursery. I have to work unfortunately, and I just feel like she’s absolutely distraught about not having me with her and it’s just so heartbreaking, I cry all the way to work. What if she thinks she’s being neglected? What if she feels anxious? What if she thinks her feelings don’t m...

Anyone else been experiencing stomach ache after eating? Is it normal

.. but my baby is driving me insane. It’s as though the past couple of days she’s decided she hates me but wants me at the same time. Constantly crying or moaning at me, but in comes daddy or anyone else and she’s smiles and happy, which is her usual self. She’s not unwell or teething as far as I can tell.. I just...

My baby is almost 16 weeks old. The crying is still increasing, feeding is difficult, falling asleep is difficult, sleeping more than 45mins is difficult to impossible. I've heard all kinds of reasons. It's the four month breastfeeding crisis, ie she's not as hungry anymore and gets distracted, it's the four month s...

I am feeling extra sad today. This morning my baby girl woke up crying for Mama while I was getting ready for work. I feel guilty for not being able to stay home with her and having to go to work.

Anterior means placenta is in front of your uterus Posterior means placenta is behind your uterus

This is going to be long, sorry! For aslong as I can remember, i’ve been anxious. I’ve tried everything over the years to help it but nothing has ever worked. The last few years i’ve suffered really bad health anxiety. This has now moved onto worrying about my baby. I can’t enjoy her because i’m constantly worried t...

Has anyone else after there section had back pain so bad it’s gone off and you are unable to do anything? I had back pain whilst pregnant and then worse after section, and now I am unable to tend to my daughter and I’ve never felt so useless in my entire life. She has had to stay at grandmas last night and my mother...

Me and my partner have just split up and I’m 37+3 with baby number 2 and our eldest is 20m I know it’s been a long time coming and I have been thinking about it for a while but now it’s actually happened I don’t know how to feel. I’m a mess. I don’t know if I’m more upset for the love I lost, for the life I thought ...

Hi all, I was just wondering if this much hair loss is normal for 4 months pp??? This is what I've lost just from brushing my hair. It's NOT normal for me too loose this much. But I don't know if the amount I'm loosing is excessive. It's really getting me down 🥺