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Braxton hicks

Has anyone suffer from braxton hicks for a few hours? I had it yesterday for 4/5 hours and the only way to get rid of it was to lie down so I stayed lying down all afternoon until it completely subsided (I was testing it by getting up and going to the toilet every now and again). I drank a lot whilst lying down whic...

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No judging please

Need to rant but please don’t judge as I feel bad already! My LG is a nightmare… I used to really look forward to our day together. Was very lucky that I had enough holidays to take every Friday off work to spend it with my LG. I now dread it… she screams all the time, has tantrums for no reason, throws herself on t...

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Anxiety about baby classes

I'm starting baby classes next week but I'm so anxious over the thought of her having a meltdown there and being judged because of it. Any advice on how to overcome this?

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Croup

Took my 4 month old to the ER today and found out he has Croup. Has anyone else experienced this? How long till they start feeling better? He was given a steroid which should quicken the healing process.

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Classical incision

Has anyone had a classical(vertical) incision on their uterus and gotten pregnant before the first year postpartum was over? Hopefully that makes sense 😬

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She heals me...

I just want to rave about my 4 year old daughter. I never knew how much my heart needed her until she was born. Now everyday even on the hard days I just feel so blessed with her. Today I had an incredibly difficult day for myself, and to top it off I ended up hitting a deer on the road in my parents vehicle (mine i...

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Hair loss

Ladies what are we doing about postpartum hair loss! I had a feeling but now I know for sure looking back at some pictures

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6 months PP zero sex drive

This is our second baby. I’m 6 months pp and have zero sec drive. Like none. I’m breastfeeding we have a 3yr old and I feel bad for my partner. Is this normal? We have had our issues but for the most part he is so good to us. I’m 37. Is it my age?

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Kissing a newborn?

I am quite against letting anyone kiss newborn in first months whereas husband thinks I'm crazy and herpes like cold sore isn't the same as the genital herpes.

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Feeling anxious

I’m a FTM and I’m having such a hard time leaving my baby even if it’s for an hour. She’s almost a month old and I’ve only left her once to go to a drs appt. I cried and was in such a hurry to get back home. My husband keeps telling me to get out of the house, even though I know I should, I get really anxious about...

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Feeling disconnected

Does anyone else ever feel disconnected or anxious about their pregnancy? I am not sure exactly how to explain, but I am having a hard time feeling any emotional connection to my baby or the pregnancy. Not every day but some days. Its like I can't relate all the changes happening to my body and there actually being ...

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Did your partner change behavior towards you ( in bad or good) after having a baby?

Example:Like being more mean, rude and judging or being a better man towards you like good words, helping and supportive.

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Not sure about getting Pregnant again

Hi girls, I am soon to be 35 and my Husband wishes a Child sometime next year. I already have a 11 year old from a previous Marriage. Currently, I am in a stable happy Marriage, financially in a decent position (Good UK Salary) , However I am scared to become pregnant again, scared of the pain, scared to start all o...

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Sex

This is going to probably sound like a silly question but do I need to speak with my doctor before having sex after giving birth? I gave birth at the end of September and I had an episiotomy which has healed. Thanks in advance

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I am just breaking down

I have daughter 22 months old, in few weeks will have another one. I don't have village, just me and my partner, but he does not help much and I have to ask him always several times. My daughter is not a calm child, she cries and shouts often...this just so draining...I am at my breaking point, I always want to cr...

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Surviving

Does anyone else feel like most days they are just surviving? I love each stage more and more but nearly 7 months of no sleep, contact naps, colic/reflux baby has really took it out of me and I can’t help but feel guilty for feeling so deflated I love my baby more then anything but the days feel longer then ever ...

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Postpartum depression?

Hi everyone, so I had my little boy last feb! And recently I’ve noticed a huge shift in how I’ve been feeling, I’m always low in moods, have mood swings, constantly tired and loss in appetite and have no energy to do anything anymore. I have no thoughts of ever harming myself or my son, but I admit being a full time...

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Changed since pregnancy

Does anyone else feel like they’ve changed since before they pregnant in ways they never expected? Before I was pregnant, I had a great relationship with my in laws. However, during pregnancy and since our son was born, I find myself becoming so irritated around them. I really hate it and feel like I’m being irrat...

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Please don’t judge me

I’ve never felt more lonely in my entire life than when I became a mom. All my life I felt like I was surrounded by love and so many people around me, friends and family. Maybe it was because I never needed something from anyone. The way I was abandoned when I was at my lowest has left a permanent scar in my heart. ...

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Hair loss

Okay so trying to find out if there is anyone else going through this because I am fed up of the arguments with the doctors. Has anyone else experienced sudden dramatic hair loss? In the last month I have lost over 50% of my hair. It has happened very quickly and is very very noticeable with my hairline fully recedi...

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