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Friends with “naughty” children?

So I have a friend whose little one is 8 years old, my LB is only 8 months so obviously there’s a big age gap. I feel so awful saying this but her LO is quite badly behaved… he shouts at his mum, runs off when walking, throws my pillows off the bed when they comes to my house, runs off in stores, demands things suc...

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Difficult morning

Yesterday I took my 2yo son to a toddler class, we've been going to this class for years now. But Yesterday he just didn't want to join in at all Kept sitting at the side, jumping on the seats and wanting to cuddle in with me. I tried encouraging him to join in but when he did he would just drop to the floor and g...

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just want to share

so after putting baby in bed we were in bed. my husband was having little pain in his stomach so i gave him gas medicine. he was fine after some time. i was trying to sleep, but he was moving a lot and i was getting disturbed. suddenly he woke up quickly and went out and came back quickly, he said he thought someone...

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So annoyed

I spent the whole day with my 3 month old by myself. First husband went to work gym etc spent half the day out. Then came home showered was home for 1.5 hours max and went to go watch the stupid fight with his friends. His ONLY FUCKING job when he got home was to dream feed her so she would sleep thru the night dumb...

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Husband takes a long vacation..

My husband took a 11 day trip, went to South America with his best friend. Meanwhile, I’m at home with a 19 month old, doing all the childcare on my own. When he got back from his trip, he didn’t seem appreciative of the work. We were also preparing to move, so I was making appts to fix things in the house, talki...

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Anxiety about going back to work

Has anyone got any tips please? To help my mind 🫣. I’m so anxious about the thought of going back to work, leaving my baby. He’ll be with two sets of grandparents two days, then nursery the other two. I know he’ll be fine. But it’s just the thought of not being with him. I’m really anxious. 😟 xx

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Am I in the wrong or being too insensitive

My partner has regularly gone out spontaneously on the weekends since the baby has been born (now 10.5 months old) recently I asked if he could pre plan nights out instead so I also get the chance to go out and plan things with friends as I haven’t been out with just my friends since he was born. He had planned a...

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Toddler reaction to baby

I have a 2yr 4 month old and a 1 week old baby. Since bringing baby home my toddler has been extremely unsettled. Wants me to cuddle him And do things with him all The time, very emotional, hitting, refusing to do anything with husband. Being abit unkind to him, unprovoked hitting. I know he’s just adjusting and un...

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Input needed: MIL going through our stuff

Hello mommas! So, I’m in a predicament where I may have to rely on my MIL to watch our son for a couple days during the holidays since his school is closed but she has a brief history of going through our belongings while babysitting which has led to me no longer asking her to watch our son without us being home. Bu...

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Am I overthinking?

My fiance grew up being good friends with this guy and he has a fiancee that I became friends with. Me and her got really close and she made me feel like we were pretty good friends. We haven't hung out in a really long time and she started ditching me or taking advantage of me. For example, she wanted me to make so...

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Would you host her?

So, my MIL told us during her visit last month that she wasn't coming for a Christmas visit. She left gifts for the kids in my closet. Since then, I started working full time and hired a nanny. The nanny is amazing but is super shy. My MIL is notorious in our family for making comments about diet, exercise, weight, ...

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Venting, idk

So my husband used to be a sense of a safe space for me especially with my anxiety but lately I’m realizing over the past two years he might actually be more triggering to it. It’ll take me forever to go over every detail but long story short I’m not in a good place mentally. I’ve been turned off from him since our...

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I’m having an anxiety attack from feeling so suffocated by in-laws.

I’m pregnant with first baby and their first grandchild. We’ve married 7 years and me feeling suffocated has been a source of practically all of mine and hubbbys disagreements/arguments over this time. We went out for dinner and I got told I need to accept help and let people in more (wanting to buy things by mil...

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Any advice?🥹

So baby boy is now 2 months old and have noticed his dad to be very unreliable , wondering if theres anything I can do to help things..? I asked him to let me know beforehand if he wants to see baby & he just won't listen and only wants to see him last minute whenever he feels like it without notice- I don't want to...

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Struggling

Honestly just looking for some kindness and support. My little one is nearly 16 weeks old now and evenings are still horrendous. I find myself in tears most days because she will just cry for hours. She doesn’t settle for the night until 11pm or after usually and it is exhausting. I find myself getting so frustr...

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Confused..

So over a week ago my partner of 6 years told me he doesn’t feel he loves me in that way anymore, this destroyed me, I moved out with my daughter and we’ve been staying at my mums house for the past week however today he asked us both to come live back home, he keeps telling me he doesn’t see him self being able to ...

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Reaching my breaking point

My husband comes home from work angry everyday. My son’s cries make me angry. I don’t have the time or energy to clean and cook and study like I used to. I feel like I’m slowly slipping away from everything and I’m so depressed. All I want is a break, but I don’t have anyone I trust to watch my son and sitters scare...

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Partner helping?

Need somewhere to vent/see how others deal with it I have told my partner that I feel so lonely because I feel like I do everything for our daughter (4month). All he does is her last feed of the day and put her to bed (including weekends) He says he can't help because he's at work (which I understand and have no...

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Tried to initiate conversation

I tried to knock sense into my husband to communicate properly i said in normal tone that we have 2 kids we need to communicate what is this silence all about, he kept staring n watching tv and phone n simply said i dont like to talk to you, you are a shit. I dont love you. What would you do? What ur thought will b...

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Advice?

My son is now 3 months old, be was just over 4 weeks early. We've had such a rollercoaster of a time, he's been unsettled for a while, quite unhappy and in pain . He's now been diagnosed as lactose intolerant and id say his symptoms have improved and he sleeps a little better at night but he literally cries alday ev...

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